What do you hate during sex, eitehr in the past with anther partner or with a current SO? like something they did that drove you bonkers lol. I hate being told wash my face or figners after going down or fingering. It's not the act, it's just she's not icky to me and it makes me feel like she feels like she's icky or something. It's from her nurse training. And first time i ever went down on someone, i spent 30 minutes on her....and she was wanting to return the favor....and she spent only like a minute before giving up. I mean she sucked at head, but c'mon, i spent nearly a half hour, can't i get more than a minute of head?