my first introduction to what you might call tantric sex occured in a dream. in it i saw a native american woman who drew me towards her. our bodies were close together and she began emanating energy from her second chakra (the energetic center near your genitals). technically there was no penetration, but the feeling was so intense and rivaled the feeling of sex i've had in waking life. later on i was reading about tantra and discovered that some native american women have used their orgasmic energy for healing. i began to wonder if that was an actual person who had entered my dream and showed me something that i didn't know existed before. '`'`'`'`'`'`'`'`'` i later started working on having an orgasm without ejaculating. semen contains so much energy and it should be conserved, not released recklessly... all of that sexual energy (as well as the amino acids and other good stuff in the fluid) can be redistributed throughout the body. by doing this you can take the creative sexual energy you have and store it elsewhere instead of waste it (although occasional ejaculation is important). the last time i tried anything like this with a girl i was going easily for 40 minutes without falling over the edge. i've been able to have minor orgasms without ejaculating, but people who are more advanced can experience intense 'full body' orgasms. so being a multi-orgasmic man can definitely be achieved. `'`'`'`'`'`'`'`'`'` is anyone else interested in this? this is something i know i can develop over a long time, use to discover a lot of new things and apply it spiritually.