Sexual investments?

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  1. Emt

    Emt New Member

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    Other than the run of the mill dildo, pocket pussy, etc...what investments have you made in the pursuit of a wonderful sexlife?

    Perhaps a sex swing? Other sexually based furniture? A room in your house (other than your bedroom) decked out with sexual paraphenalia? A vacation to a "couples only" resort? Get the idea?

    Share your investments with us as well as what profit they yielded.:)

    Thanks!

    -Emt
     
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    While I am probably a little off track with this answer I will give it anyway. Over the years my wife and I tried a few toys and had many exotic, romantic vacations. The best sexual investment I ever made was when I fell in love with my wife of nearly 40 years. Finding a “soul mate” and Investing in a long-term relationship is an investment that requires continued maintenance but provides a fantastic return. My wife has gone on to be with her maker but memories of her will always be with me. To me that is the best investment I ever made.
     
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    LOL - that's what i was thinking, as well. but I figured EMT as looking more for the spicey, off-the-wall stuff.

    But our best investments have been forcing ourselves to get away from work and the kids (and the extended family :eyes) - Some trips were a bit pricey, and some were dirt cheap. But the outcome was the same. We tended to experience a new freedom and love and desire for each other. Just being able to relax and focus on 'us'.

    Now that all the kids are gone, and we have loads of time alone, we aren't strangers, but great friends, hot lovers, emotional supporters. All-in-all, making sure that we didn't lose touch with each other, and the fact that one day we would be alone again, has made these autumn years incredibly sensual, exciting, erotic.

    And we are now seeing our own kids doing the same thing in their young married life. Nice to know your "investment" is earning interest. ;)
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    But in keeping with the spirit of the question, we did redecorate our bedroom when the last child moved on. It is very romantic - deep, jeweltone color scheme; strategically placed mirrors; candles; exotic (but cheap) artwork; different lighting choices; room darkening draperies (for those 'morning glory' romps or those afternoon delights!) It is truly a sexual hide-away for us. When we enter the room, we don't feel like we are at home. We feel like we could be anywhere in the world.
     
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    We have purchased a small treasure trove of sexually enticing paraphernalia during our many years together. There are probably about 40 assorted "didos". They vary from cheap to expensive, plastic to cyberskin, with and without remotes, speeds, you know....some jelly, and a few really unique ones. He has a few toys of his own. And there are a variety of cuffs, restraints, whips, ball gags, blindfolds and other such inventory. I have a healthy porn collection. Mostly videos, dvds and a few subscriptions. The subject and content matter vary greatly through the collection (I like expanding my horizons).
    Do we use them much? No. I'm not usually patient enough for anything that elaborate! But it is there. And when we do have a lot of time to spend together, we use them. I have to agree with the previous posters. If I wasn't in a long term relationship, it's unlikely I would feel comfortable enough to "play" with toys in front of someone else.
    Actually, I really love the photography of KinIchi Tanaka. I regard his book "Kinbaku-Kiko" as my favorite pornographic possession.
     
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    Handcuffs! Haha, I know it's pretty simple but they do the trick when you want them... we haven't really gotten much else because neither of us have made the trek to the adult-stores yet. Lots of stuff has potential that we've seen online though!
     
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    Good replies!! And some very good points. Please keep them coming :)

    Thanks!

    -Emt
     
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