What do you do when your libido has hit its peak and your BF libido is low. I try to be good and patience with him. He is only 35 yrs old. I am afraid by the time he is 40 yrs. It will be nonexistent. What to do? I do love him but it is really putting a big time strain on our relationship. :ugh I feel like anything i try to do will make it worse somehow.