Well ive seen alot of these threads about sex issues between married couples and i hate to add to them but i feel like i need to talk to other people about this other than just my wife. My wife and i have been together almost 8 years and married for 2 have a beautiful 3 year old daughter who is our world two APBT's bought our first house together last October and we are only 23. We both work fulltime jobs she works 3rd shift an i work 2nd shift and often work a lot of overtime and usually work between 40-80hrs weekly. I love my wife very much and we tell each other many times daily we make sure yo have just us time every week since during the week i only see he when she wakes me and when i leave for work i wake her to tell her bye. The issue. i have a extreamly high sex drive compaired to hers to the point she has called me a perv. lol im not into anything kinky and we dont use toys just since i always want her and tell her and try she calls me a perv. anyway enough of that. We have sex maybe once a week sometimes once every two-three weeks. she has always been a little too conservitave imo ever since we have been together. what really bothers me is i want her so much everyday that i constantly think about her and sex with her and things we do when we have sex. in return im constantly aroused and do not have her around or willing to please me. i try whenever we have time together with a nice kiss and hug or complement and sometimes jump in the shower with her and kiss her and she just isnt in to it. In the past few months we have come a long way and we talk alot about it and she says she understands my needs and we talk about trying iffrent things and in return i get extreamly turned on and then i get rejected and she goes to sleep. ive gotten to the point that it bothers me so much that it can ruin my whole day and i get very stressed out. i guess i get to the point where i feel like maybe i dont turn her on like she does me. idk i know this is such a generic topic but i thought id get it off my chest. there may be alot of confusion in the post to but i tend to ramble anyway here it is.