Hi I havent had sex for about 3 years and I feel very frustrated. My last girlfriend refused having sex and even though our relationship was not purely platonic, it wasnt enough. I cant concentrate very much and keep thinking about sex. But the problem is that I have been having violent sexual fantasies involving fire. Its some kind of a wierd fetish. What should I do? I emphasize the fact, that it is just a matter of fantasy... but a very obsessive one. I wonder if it cant be some kind of compensation of lack of sex. Any ideas? How to get rid of this?