Sexual frustration/agitation......

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  1. Lovnflman

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    Question for both sexes.....

    Do you find that after an extended period of time since your last "romp" that you become progressively more agitated, tense, irritable until you get that next sexual encounter? Do you also find your mind wandering to places/thoughts/desires that you would not normally have immediately post coitus? I'm talking about things like being unfaithful, random hookups, same sex thought/fantasies.

    I do, and since my marriage is now sexless I feel like some days I wanna hurt someone! Of course hanging out here and reading about all the sex everyone is having (like I used to have) isn't helping. I'm going out of my mind at times until I can manage a solo episode, and then the relief is only temporary.

    Just curious.......

    "Women get married hoping to change the man........Men get married hoping the woman will never change"!
     
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    I'm finding that I get incredibly physically uncomfortable at the moment if I'm not having regular orgasms. The few days after my testosterone injection I'll genuinely start to feel it after a few hours.

    It often leads to me thinking about exposing myself and that's what led me here. Somewhere that it's safe to show my body. Well safer than just meeting up with random people anyway.
     
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    "Sexual frustration"

    I feel your pain :rolleyes:
     
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    I'm a straight virgin and when I get really horny and have no females to talk sexually to, I turn to gay forums to get someone to talk to. Hopefully on this site I can find some females to talk to.
     
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    I don't get sexual frustration, I just get hornier and hornier while my standerds lower more and more, until I get some. Which is saying something. Because my standards are atrocious.
     
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    Some of us have given up on any standards...Getting some is the point.
     
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    I just get hornier and hornier. Though hormones can play some games with you so some of that does happen from time to time.
    I just masturbate a lot when I get to that point
     
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    Unlike the OP I actually find, and have always found help on this site as far as curing my sexual frustration. I too am in an almost sexless marriage so I end up masturbating a lot as my libido doesn't seem to be going away any time soon.
    I have too many peeps to thank for that on this forum and some of them have left the forum anyway :( but one thing I know is that this forum made my sexual frustration easier to deal with.
     
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    My wife and I both get agitated and snappy when we have gone too long. Best to keep the pipes clean! One reason for me to stop in here is to keep my drive in tip top condition so I'm ready when the time is right.
     
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    Yep I get irritated constantly. Pissed off at everything basically.
     
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    Yes and no..I definitely get more impatient, but what id say is the endorphin rush of regular sex tends to make me overlook justifiable qualms. Whats infinitely more annoying and enraging is being offered sex in lieu of some anger or annoyance im having at the time...its really quite insulting.
     
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    NOOOOOOO!! :eek: I would love that! That would placate me every fucking time. I would even apologize for shit I haven't done if my wife just offered sex.
     
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    Most guys probably would..lol. I dunno, for me it's always seemed equivalent to the old days when a guy would just buy jewelry or throw cash at a marital problem, and the good little woman would just be shut up..
    I guess as I've gotten away from the desperate sexual thirst of young adulthood, that i won't allow sex to be my reset button..i figure if you want the privilege of having sex with me(an attitude more young men should embody, by the way.) then respect me and help get the conflict resolved 1st...too many girls grow up using sex as their "get out of jail free card."
     
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    You must have sex more than a few times a year then...
     
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    Now, but I developed this attitude early on, about 18yrs old..even went celibate for almost a year, just to strengthen myself against the allure of women...at that age it really changes the social balance and interactions when women can't use their sexual appeal against you.
     
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    After not that long the overwhelming need just kinda goes away. After all, why the agita? It'll happen when it happens, until then I can focus on other more important things. Sex (believe it or not) is not the be all end all of existence.
     
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    :p
     
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    I didn't say it's not important - just that I don't define my existence by my sex life. I'm more than just a hunk of meat... a savory hunk of meat. :cool::rolleyes::p
     
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    OP: yes, I do get tense and restless if it's been a while. Thankfully, it never goes on for too long.
     
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    That is so fucking funny... I feel you bro!