Question for both sexes..... Do you find that after an extended period of time since your last "romp" that you become progressively more agitated, tense, irritable until you get that next sexual encounter? Do you also find your mind wandering to places/thoughts/desires that you would not normally have immediately post coitus? I'm talking about things like being unfaithful, random hookups, same sex thought/fantasies. I do, and since my marriage is now sexless I feel like some days I wanna hurt someone! Of course hanging out here and reading about all the sex everyone is having (like I used to have) isn't helping. I'm going out of my mind at times until I can manage a solo episode, and then the relief is only temporary. Just curious....... "Women get married hoping to change the man........Men get married hoping the woman will never change"!