Sexual Addiction?

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  1. sexynzgirl

    sexynzgirl New Member

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    Hi I did this online questionairre thing and apparently I'm a sexual compulsive/sex addict it honestly was news to me but my friend says he's known for years? Anyone else think they may be sex addicts?
     
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    [​IMG] . . . . ummmm, . . . me . . . :eek:
     
  3. Thorn

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    Can you post the URL for the online survey? Some of us could answer the questions and see where we fall in the mix. I know we are above average in many ways when it comes to sex. I mean we are on sexualforums.com aren't we? :phat
     
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    Sexual addiction

    I agree with Thorn!
    And my wife swears Im addicted to sex and her body...lol....I dont think Im addicted, just that my wife turns me on so much and I love our physical relationship ....(raising hand) Im E and Im addicted to sex and my wife...:brow
     
  5. Thorn

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    I do not have a problem. I can quit anytime.:D
     
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    Below I have posted the test for women, although there is a seperate one for men on the same web site. I only answered no to four out of 25 questions...um yeah
    http://www.ncsac.org/addicts/addict_womens_test.aspx
    To administrators, if posting this url isn't allowed please don't ban me just take it off thanks.
     
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    Nope, posting URLs is fine. I encourage it. Just posting links/pictures/videos ect that are pornographic in nature, or nudity is not allowed. This is to prevent the forum from becoming a smut forum, since there is no real line between porn and nudity.


    Nothing wrong from your link that I can see. :)
     
  8. Rose

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    Dear sexynzgirl:
    Thanks for the URL. I took the test.
    It seems I have "some issues with sexual addiction". I have been advised to "consult a trained professional to discuss these issues further".
    :lol
     
  9. Thorn

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    Most of the "yes" answers (2 or 3) that I answered had to do with my past. (over 30 years ago) So according to the survey I have no addiction to sex at all. :) I love it, just not a sex addict.
     
  10. Solla

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    1. Were you sexually abused as a child or adolescent?
    NO
    2. Do you regularly purchase romance novels or sexually explicit magazines?
    NO
    3. Have you stayed in a romantic relationship after it became emotionally or physically abusive?
    NO
    4. Do you often find yourself preoccupied with sexual thoughts or romantic daydreams?
    YES
    5. Do you feel that your sexual behavior is normal?
    YES
    6. Does your spouse (or significant other(s)) ever worry or complain about your sexual behavior?
    NO
    7. Do you have trouble stopping your sexual behavior when you know it is inappropriate?
    NO
    8. Do you ever feel bad about your sexual behavior?
    ONLY THAT HUBBY, BECAUSE OF BIOLOGY, CAN'T GET AS MUCH PLEASURE FROM ME AS I CAN (AND DO) FROM HIM... OVER AND OVER AND OVER...
    9. Has your sexual behavior ever created problems for you and your family?
    A FEW TIMES HUBBY AND I HAVE BEEN, SHALL I SAY, ENGAGED IN RATHER INTENSE ACTIVITY AND FAMILY STOPPED BY UNANNOUNCED. WE DIDN'T ANSWER THE DOOR, SO I GUESS THAT MEANS YES.
    10. Have you ever sought help for sexual behavior you did not like?
    HECK NO, WHY?
    11. Have you ever worried about people finding out about your sexual activities?
    YES
    12. Has anyone been hurt emotionally because of your sexual behavior?
    NO
    13. Have you ever participated in a sexual activity in exchange for money or gifts?
    FROM HUBBY, YOU BET!
    14. Do you have times when you act out sexually followed by periods of celibacy (no sex at all)?
    YES, IT'S PART OF THE PLAY HUBBY AND I HAVE. IT DRIVES ME NUTS.
    15. Have you made efforts to quit a type of sexual activity and failed?
    NO
    16. Do you hide some of your sexual behavior from others?
    YOU BET, BUT NOT FROM ANYONE HERE.
    17. Do you find yourself having multiple romantic relationships at the same time?
    NO, HUBBY AND I ARE MONOGAMOUS.
    18. Have you ever felt degraded by your sexual behavior?
    NO, EMPOWERED.
    19. Have sex or romantic fantasies been a way for you to escape your problems?
    YES, THAT'S WHAT MAKES IT WONDERFUL. LIFE SUCKS. SO DOES SEX. IT'S AMAZING HOW THE FIRST SUCK IS BAD AND THE SECOND SUCK IS GOOD.
    20. When you have sex, do you feel depressed afterwards?
    ONLY WHEN WE STOP BECAUSE OF EXTERNAL COMITTMENTS.
    21. Do you regularly engage in sado-masochistic behavior?
    YES, IT'S PART OF OUR PLAY.
    22. Has your sexual activity interfered with your family life?
    SEE IMPACT ON FAMILY, ABOVE.
    23. Have you been sexual with minors?
    ARE YOU SICK? HELL NO.
    24. Do you feel controlled by your sexual desire or fantasies of romance?
    YES, AND ITS FIND BY ME, BECAUSE THERE ARE DIFFERRENT DEGREES OF CONTROL.
    25. Do you ever think your sexual desire is stronger than you are?
    YES, WHEN I WANT THEM TO BE... WHICH I GUESS MAKES MY ANSWER REALLY NO.

    This has been fun.

    Solla
     
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    How do you take it. It just has questions?
     
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    Yes I have an addiction to sex.I cant help it I love to fuck.
     
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    if i evr had sex i would be addict i am addicted to jackin off tho sumtimes i go 10 times a day
     
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    i feel i am addicted to sex. i need it every day and masturbate every day too
     
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    I guess I'm an addict too.
     
  16. Thorn

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    I just use it recreationally. :D I don't have a problem. I can quit anytime I want to. (Until I get horny again.) :lol
     
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    Ok Thorn ... What the deuce is your avatar?
     
  18. Thorn

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    It's something I found that was called Thorn. So I guess it's a guy with thorns? :) To me anyhow.
     
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    I'm definitely addicted to sex
     
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    YES we are definately ADDICTED to SEX!
     
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