I am new to this site and have questions. I am a 40yr old female going through a divorce. Over a yr ago I reconnected with a guy from high school in my same situation. We speak almost daily over Facebook chat. After about 2 months we decided to meet for drinks. There was an immediate physical connection. A yr later we still chat daily and meet at least 2 times a month for sex. It is mind blowing for both of us. He is very attentive to making sure my needs are met as I am with him. We decided when this started that neither was ready for a relationship. I'm still not sure I'm ready for one either but I enjoy the sex. He is feeling the same way also. How is it possible to feel this way about a relationship but want to make sure our sex is incredible each time. We both take great pride in what the other wants and needs. Not sure what to do or think anymore about this.