Sex with your stepchild

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  1. GeneAlexander730

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    Has anyone had sex with their adult stepchild? If so how did it happen and how is your relationship now.
     
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    talking about sex with your relatives should not be allowed on this site IMO
     
  3. RubyAsh

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    Why not, if they are not blood related?
     
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    just my opinion and a stepchild is a relative
     
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    The site rule, say nothing about incest, and as you stated, he is not talking about a blood relative.
    He's referring to consensual sex between two adults.
     
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    It might be my interpretation of the word 'stepchild' which I've always taken as being "minors whose biological parent marries a person who isn't the child's biological parent" and which is clearly not the case as the stepchild is an adult.
    I do agree that without knowing more information it is potentially a very dodgy subject and one to be avoided, as it may raise issues regarding how long this was going on and if it started before the stepchild was an adult, etc.
    However, not all relatives are that close and, there are other family members who are considered relatives and with whom cohabitation or marriage is permitted by law in many countries, i.e. cousins.
     
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    wow so you guys are saying if I had a step dad and he married my mom when I was a little kid,
    and after I turned 18 we could fuck all we wanted to, and is is not blood related so that's OK
    sounds creepy to me
     
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    no I have not
    guess I never been that hard up or desperate to go after members of my family
     
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    sounds creepy as hell to me too!
     
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    I thought when two adults married and one had children the other thought of them as THEIR children. And I think you are right @SexualFantasyGirl, this does seem creepy if not insestual. I suppose to some peoples way of thinking a child could be adopted and since they weren't blood relation sex with them would be OK on their 18th birthday? Something about this seems very taboo and makes my skin crawl.
     
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    great point to make
     
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    I suggest you go back and read what I wrote properly because that is NOT what I'm saying at all!!!

    What I'm saying is that there are cases and there are cases.

    I will tell you that I know of a specific case of a man (40 y.o.) who married a woman (early 50s) who had a 20 something (think she was 26 or 27 at the time) year old daughter. The woman got very sick shortly after their wedding and died within a few of months. The step-daughter was going through some personal issues and had returned to her mom's home for a while and was present to support her mom through the last weeks of her life's ordeal. Afterwards, in their grief the man and the step-daughter just clicked. They ended up marrying each other a couple years later - they've been married now for over 10 years and have children of their own. There was nothing untoward about the affair, apart from it being a bit unusual and they actually joke about her having been his step-daughter.
     
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    that's ex

    that,s exactly what you said,
    you think it's ok for a man to marry his stepchild ? I don't
    you are trying to come up with a example when it's ok,
    but IMO a mam is is fucking his stepchild,which in my opinion is wrong
    pretty sure it's not even legal to married to your stepchild
    but if some people want to talk about relations fucking go ahead ,I'm sure it will be ok on this site
     
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    Firstly, I’m not “trying to come up with an example when it’s ok”. I gave this example because it’s a specific and very much real case I personally know of.

    Secondly, of course you’re entitled to YOO and so are others in this forum.

    Thirdly, no one is talking about having sex with a minor, but of two consenting adults that are not blood related wanting it. If anything, this constitutes a violation of the marriage vows and of trust within the family.

    Fourthly, none of us know of any details about the circumstances other than what the OP posted and we’ve no idea whether the OP was an active part on educating the stepchild prior to her/him becoming an adult or whether the stepchild was already an adult when she/he came into the OP’s life, so none of us are in a position to judge or criticise the situation.

    Lastly, IMO, you’re just trying to be disagreeable for the sake of it, as you’ve not yet given any valid reason as to why two consenting adults, taking into account point 4 above, should not engage in sexual relations.

    And I rest my case.
     
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    well the OP did not say anything about age,so as far as I don't know if is thinking of a minor or not.
    and no matter what age it's still wrong IMO
    and I'm allowed to my opinion even if you don't agree with it,
    In Cal. it's incest to have sex with your stepchildren regardless of age
    http://www.shouselaw.com/incest.html
    and I think it's funny when people think everyone else is being disagreeable but them.
    I'm not saying anything bad you at all, I am saying to have sex with relatives is wrong IMO
    and the definition of relative is
    https://www.vocabulary.com/dictionary/relative
    and it says a relative is thru blood or marriage

    you have a great day
     
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    There are many topics in posts here that don't interest me. I just choose not to click on them. I hate censorship. Post what you will, read what you want to, ignore the rest!
     
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    I agree with that, I ignore a lot of things also
    but there is nothing wrong in giving different opinions in what you believe in either
     
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    You are obviously allowed your opinion but please don't quote things that you obviously have not read, or understood, to back it up.

    From your link to Californian Law a direct copy and paste:
    This means that it will not be considered the crime of California incest if, for example, the following people have sex:


    • Cousins,
    • Adopted siblings,
    • Step-parents and step-children,
    • Step-siblings,
    • A half-uncle and his half-niece, or a half-aunt and her half-nephew.
     
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  20. SexyFantasyGirl

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    it says, (I don't see what you have in red that you say is a direct copy and paste)


    The types of relatives who may not marry or have sex with each other under Penal Code 285 PC, California's incest law, are:

    1. Parents and children;
    2. Grandparents and grandchildren, or anyone else with an ancestor-descendant relationship (like great-grandparents and their great-grandchildren);
    3. Siblings;
    4. Half-siblings; and
    5. Uncles/aunts and nieces/nephews.2

    I really did copy and paste the above
     
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