[Ask a Girl] Sex with someone other than your husband

Discussion in 'Ask a Guy/Girl' started by Chris_77, Jul 16, 2016.

  1. Chris_77

    Chris_77 New Member

    Joined:
    Jul 15, 2016
    Messages:
    11
    Likes Received:
    16
    Gender:
    Male
    Hi Ladies,

    If your husband was really turned on by the thought of watching you have sex with another man as often as you want, would you consider/do it? If yes, what characteristics would you look for in the other man?
     
  2. lbushwalker

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Mar 18, 2006
    Messages:
    6,964
    Likes Received:
    5,077
    Gender:
    Male
    Location:
    'Stralia Mate!
    *Pretending to be a girl for stereotypical response* A BIG DICK!
    You asked :rolleyes:
     
    CLE32793, Meee and fairlthick like this.
  3. Meee

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Sep 9, 2010
    Messages:
    2,198
    Likes Received:
    3,094
    Gender:
    Female
    Location:
    Potomac, Maryland
    *Pretending to be a man for stereotypical response* I knew it. All of you women always say size doesn't matter, but we men know the truth.
     
    Gmsexycpl, RaynieJ, CLE32793 and 3 others like this.
  4. loves2ride

    Verified Gold Member

    Joined:
    Apr 24, 2014
    Messages:
    2,452
    Likes Received:
    7,896
    Gender:
    Female
    Location:
    Californication ;)
    My husband is turned on by it and so am I. We've had MFM 3sums in the past as well as Hot Wife scenarios. We would like for me to find a "Boyfriend". The problem has always been finding "Mr Right"...

    Mr. Right would be single, and not necessarily be interested in marriage because he's devoted to his career. He would be kind, fun and have a great personality. Good looking would be a plus, but it's more "the personality". And it would be nice if he had at least a "slightly bigger Cock" than my husband (for variety), but it wouldn't be a deal breaker if he didn't.

    Also we want someone that could go out places with us for fun and enjoyment besides just bedroom play.
     
  5. Chris_77

    Chris_77 New Member

    Joined:
    Jul 15, 2016
    Messages:
    11
    Likes Received:
    16
    Gender:
    Male
    That's exactly what my wife is desiring. A smart, attractive, taller, blue-eyed man and that has bigger cock than I do to come over regularly just to give her really good sex. She prefers, however, one-on-one sex without me participating in any way. I have to admit, the more she discusses it with me, the more turned on I get. Is this a common fantasy for women? She told me that she would be totally fine with me watching, but her biggest fantasy would be her and another man in our bed with the door locked, while I can only hear their sounds and moans from another room.
     
  6. Mywife4u

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Jul 7, 2016
    Messages:
    242
    Likes Received:
    609
    Gender:
    Female
    Location:
    Chicago Illinois
    I have done with other men in front of hubby. For me the characteristics I look for is personality first we all have to able to get along. Then of course a bigger dick then hubby is always appreciated by me. Also looking athletically built men. Race or age doesn't bother me. And will they take a STD test because we like to play bare.
     
  7. Zazzles

    Verified Gold Member

    Joined:
    Dec 1, 2014
    Messages:
    1,376
    Likes Received:
    3,679
    i would probably consider it but i think i would probably back out when it came to it. I would probably be looking for someone similar to my boyfriend
     
  8. Chris_77

    Chris_77 New Member

    Joined:
    Jul 15, 2016
    Messages:
    11
    Likes Received:
    16
    Gender:
    Male
    How does your husband feel when another man is bigger and better in bed than him? For me, the better he is bed, the more the thought of it turns me on. And, of course, my wife would prefer a man who can last longer in bed, and that has a larger cock than I do too!
     
    Mywife4u likes this.
  9. Mywife4u

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Jul 7, 2016
    Messages:
    242
    Likes Received:
    609
    Gender:
    Female
    Location:
    Chicago Illinois
    It is something he enjoys. He enjoys when their is a noticeable size difference between him and the other men. And of course ability in bed it gets my husband charged up watching another man or men get me off and cum in me.
     
    Chris_77 and Invigorated like this.
  10. Chris_77

    Chris_77 New Member

    Joined:
    Jul 15, 2016
    Messages:
    11
    Likes Received:
    16
    Gender:
    Male
    Do you ever tell your husband how much better the other man's cock feels?
     
  11. Mywife4u

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Jul 7, 2016
    Messages:
    242
    Likes Received:
    609
    Gender:
    Female
    Location:
    Chicago Illinois
    Sometimes I do like teasing him when I'm with the another man or men.
     
    teamster145 and Invigorated like this.
  12. Chris_77

    Chris_77 New Member

    Joined:
    Jul 15, 2016
    Messages:
    11
    Likes Received:
    16
    Gender:
    Male
    Would you prefer MFM regularly OR another man one-on-one with you while your husband watches? My wife and I really turned on by the latter but we don't know where to find the right guy.
     
  13. Chris_77

    Chris_77 New Member

    Joined:
    Jul 15, 2016
    Messages:
    11
    Likes Received:
    16
    Gender:
    Male
    Does your boyfriend want this too, or just you?
     
  14. Mywife4u

    Gold Member

    Joined:
    Jul 7, 2016
    Messages:
    242
    Likes Received:
    609
    Gender:
    Female
    Location:
    Chicago Illinois
    I do tell him. And he can see it in my face as the man or men are doing there work.
     
    Invigorated and teamster145 like this.