[Ask a Guy] sex with me?

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  1. curiouskitty

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    sooo my boyfriend doesn't want to have sex with me? i don't understand. he does sometimes, but when we do he cums really fast. i dont mind that, but i just want to get laid! i dont care what position, i like riding, him fucking me, doggy, everything. but so my question is, guys, uhm is there any reason why you wouldn't want to fuck a girl?


    thanks :)
     
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    He's gettin' some on the side. You're not that good. You're not hygienic enough. He's not comfortable with himself and/or his abilities. Mental block for him. He's using you. There are a myriad of possibilities and I think the masses here will agree that we need a bit more info to assist you.
     
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    okay, well. i dont know what else i can do. uhm, i always try to have sex every night we're together, but his excuses are 'im too tired' , 'i told you why, cause i cum too fast' , and stuff like that. i am clean, i shower everyday, and i shave. like it sucks when im horny, and i cant get fucked and i have to go to bed horny or go upstairs and use a toy to get off. :/ he makes me feel not sexy. im not saying im the most gorgeous girl in the world. but im not ugly. im like 5'3, 36D tits, a decent ass, im not fat, long dirty blonde hair. i dont know how to like react to this... maybe it is me?
     
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    Well that comment seemed rude and overly negative.

    He's right though in saying lots of different things can cause that. You should ask if he's upset about anything. When I'm depressed I'm not always in the mood for sex. Or perhaps it's more a physical issue. Don't auto start blaming yourself before you talk with him. It's probably not a you issue, it's a HIM issue.
     
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    maybe it is a him issue, i dont understand why he doesn't want too. like i love sex... :( and he makes me feel like im not sexy or good enough.
     
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    you sound lovely find someone who cares for you

    gx
     
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    ginge, awww, thanks <3 and i think he cares about me? ugh,
     
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    maybe he's just a young guy and is just as inexperienced as you.
     
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    hes 23, and im 18. ive been with 4 guys including him, and one of them i was with for 3 years. so my ex and i had sex all the time. like i know what i like, i love anal, and getting eaten out and sucking dick, but it just seems like he doenst like sex at all :/ ugh.
     
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    well, I've also heard sex every night can wear some guys thin.

    And some guys just don't have that high of a sex drive* I'm fairly sure that if I was able to have sex weekly, it'd keep my libido in check. Though if she wanted more, I'd likely give in.
     
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    Why not just ask him what the problem is?
     
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    Oversinged, i BARELY have sex with my current boyfriend. my ex and i fucked all the time, time after time. and my current bf just doesnt like too i guess.

    Northside, i asked him and he says 'i cum to fast' 'idont wanna slip in you' blahblahblah. i was just seeing what other people's opinons were because im TIRED of the same answers. i hate having to go to bed horny or fuck myself with my toys. id rather just have sex.
     
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    maybe you'r hard to keep up :)

    you started a thread :lol
     
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    yeah, maybe he cant keep up with you lol
     
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    hahhaha, that could be a possiblilty /: but I don't know. ugh. he makes it so difficult. /:
     
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    ugh:/ he or ugh:/ you
     
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    ugh that he won't fuck me :(
     
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    Make him jalous won't help?
     
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    hopefully tonight he will, I've been BEGGIJG the past two nights for sex or anything. I even tried sucking his cock to make him want too, & then he's like just finish me & I'm like why not just fuck!? ughhhh. I feel soo..... unsexy? I guess you could say. /: