[Ask a Girl] Sex with a female friend - and size

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  1. niceguyp7

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    It occurs to me that the question of size is more important to females than we men sometimes think. Am I right, or am I wrong?.

    Asian girls I've had sexual experience with have always commented that I'm "big", but I've always considered that it's because they are smaller in size and therefore I am "big" for them.

    My penis is 7.2 inches long and quite thick [eg please see the photos in my album] so I am little longer/thicker, than average, but not "over-sized".

    One girl, who is a friend and a sometimes-sexual partner, has told me that to her I'm a perfect fit, not small but not too, too big [she is very slender so an oversized penis is not to her liking, as she's told me].

    Actaully, the nice thing about this friend is that we are just that, we don't 'love' each other in a romantic way but 'love' each other as 'best-friends'.

    She's Asian [Chinese], pretty and has a lovely, kind personality::we meet often but usually to catch up, take in a movie, have a nice dinner and then chat and chat and chat...

    A year ago I told her I was really missing sexual contact with females, and she stunned me by taking my hand and leading me to my bedroom [we were in my apartment] and she started undressing me...

    The rest you can imagine, but suffice to say it was one of the most wonderful sexual experiences I've ever had, especially because it was not only unexpected but it was pure and simply "sexual".

    She made it evident/clear that this would be simply a 'sexual' arrangement between us, and I was in no doubt at all that she was being genuinely kind to me, she just wanted to 'help' me as a 'best-friend'.

    And she also wanted to be able to enjoy sexual pleasure with 'no-strings attached'.

    So she usually stays with me on weekends and we do all the normal things friends do, but we make love twice: late Friday night and again Saturday.

    Friday night is usually quite quick, because we both need to 'relieve' our pent-up sexual arousement. Saturday, we often spend 2 [sometimes even 3] hours making love, and that is a very special time when take great delight in pleasuring each other - we both really enjoy exploring our sexuality with each other.

    Mostly during the longer sessions she gets me to masturbate myself whilst she watches, which is extremely exciting for me and -she tells - she finds it arouses her greatly, especially when she see me ejaculating.

    Because I'm then 'relieved' it allows me to prolong my arousal considerably, so we are thus able to spend much, much longer in sexually pleasing each other::we eventually get to a point where we both feel the most incredible sexual excitement which leads to unbelievably intense orgasms for each of us.

    Occasionally she has multiple orgasms and, just occasionally, so have I::that is a very, very special feeling for both of us whenever that happens.

    She says she really enjoys the feeling when I penetrate her, she often asks me to stay still inside her so she can writhe around a little bit and enjoy the feeling of my penis.

    Usually [mostly] we make love in the Tao technique [which I've described in my 'Sexuality' blog earlier] so our orgasms are always, always very, very intense.

    What amazes me is how much we enjoy each other sexually::and I really mean that, the sexual pleasure we achieve with each other is absolutely sensational, we both feel such electric sexual excitement in these encounters.

    Yet we've been able to maintain a wonderful friendship and we're able to discuss sexual matters in a very open and frank way.

    Hence my question about the importance of penis-size to females: my friend tells me she like my length but more especially enjoys the thickness of my penis as it gives much more sensitivity to the inside of her vagina, and the labia/vaginal lips, when I'm inside her.

    Incidentally, I'm waxed ie my pubic area + gentitals are completely hairless and my friend is also waxed/hairless: we both agree that this makes for such a wonderfully nice feeling when we are making love.

    I've had a vasectomy [marriage ended long ago, family now grown-up] so my friend + I are able to enjoy sex 'au naturel' ie without condom::she says that she loves the feeling when I ejaculate inside her, she claims it is gives her the ultimate feeling of sexual pleasure as it coincides with her orgasm.

    For me, to ejaculate at precisely the same time as she reaches her orgasm, well, that is the most wonderful + exciting feeling of all!

    I would love to hear any comments about this from girls who can understand such a special male-female relationship: are my friend + I unusually unique in any way at all?
     
  2. Hot Wheels

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    It sure sounds like a sweet deal.....but why "no strings attached"?
    By the sound of it, you guys are spending an awful lot of time together already and are obviously very compatible sexually.....
    Chinese women can be very addictive I know.....so why do you keep her at arms length?

    and welcome to SF too.....:welcome
     
  3. Meee

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    Well, I don't know how important you think it is to us, but my guess is you're wrong. Nothing personal. Most men obsess about how much we care about size. They obsess about whether we obsess about it. We don't obsess about size.

    Also, I don't see anything unique about your relationship with this woman. Really, nothing at all. It sounds nice. Don't overthink it--enjoy it.
     
  4. HardRocker

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    I'm not a girl, so can I comment? Okay, I will anyway:D.
    This sounds like the beginning of a beautiful relationship. My wife and I were best friends before we had a sexual relationship. And at that time we had no idea we would end up getting married. But after 3 or 4 years we did tie the knot. That was 26 years ago and we're still best friends. We hang out every day after work and laugh and talk and entertain each other thoroughly enjoying each other's company. Sex is still good too.

    From what I gather reading several threads we've got here at SF, women's body size is unrelated to the size of their genitalia, inside and out.

    Well I see two people have posted since I started writing this, so I hope I'm still posting relevant stuff.
     
  5. JimmyBeans

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    I don't know if this is a question or a story about your sweet treat and swinging manhood.