I have heard of people sleep walking, but sex while they sleep?? My hubs has been doing this for a few years now. He has no idea that it is happening. Sometimes (which scares the hell out of me) he even smokes a cig! Way to catch the house on fire! At first I thought that it was due to him not getting it enough. It started during a dry spell we (I) had. But we have been out of that for a while now. We have plenty of sex and pleasure so I don't believe that's it. Then I thought he was dreaming....well we know of sometimes he'll do it while dreaming, but other times...no dreams. He feels really bad for doing it after I tell him about it. I love sex..don't get me wrong, but I like my sleep too. He will do it even on nights that we just fucked for 2-3 hours. It used to put a big damper in our relationship. That only added to my dry spell because I felt that I was being taken advantage of. I have come to realize that he doesn't mean to do it. So I have a different look on it. He feels so bad that he won't even sleep in the same bed for fear of doing it! How horrible. It seems to only be when he home with me. (stays with family during the week for work). No other time. We have also noticed that if he doesn't put it in during this, he will wake up from sleeping and his dick will be swollen....like almost purple. The pressure is so intense he almost had to goto the er. Is this related? It brings him to tears when the hard on doesn't go down, the pain is intense. Sorry for this being so long. Thanks for reading. Any input or experiences would be much appreciated!