Sex toys plus questions!!.

Discussion in 'General Sex Discussion' started by p00shy, Jan 5, 2008.

  1. p00shy

    p00shy New Member

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    I dont know how to do the poll thingy, if someone could post it here that would be great.

    my question is to the women out there..

    do you prefer your mans penis or a sex toy of your choice better, and what if the toy you get was bigger then your man's penis?

    my question to the men out there...

    are you comfortable with your lady to get a dildo or some other toy that is bigger then you?

    this just came to mind because ive seen some RIDICULOUSLY large dildos that women can choose from and i think, wow... that must feel like reverse child birth or something. :D
     
  2. Joe

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    They don't make dildos bigger than me. :shifty Ummmmmm... if they did, no, it wouldn't bother me.

    I gave my wife her first toy... and the one after that and the one after that and the one after that....

    My wife sometimes prefers to use her Eroscillator WITH me, and the angle isn't quite right, so yeah, at times I'd rather she didn't use it, but if it makes sex better for her I can live with it. Otherwise, I'm the one using her toy on her, and I do get a kick out of it. Rarely, once or twice a year, she'll use a toy on her own while I watch and jerk off. Heck, it's all good.
     
  3. Dreama

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    I would like my fiance's penis as opposed to a toy...Nothing beats flesh against flesh, kisses and whispers.
     
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    I happen to agree with this statement personally although I don't think that there is anything wrong with using a dildo while in a relationship if that helps the female get off.

    -Alli
     
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    I'll answer for my wife as well....

    I am just an average guy. My wife is very nice, she says it is a perfect size, it doesn't hurt her, and we can easily hit the magic spots. She loves to ride on top because my size doesn't casue pain. She says a huge dick is nice once in a blue moon, but she could't take it everyday, and she likes to screw everyday. She was a self proclaimed size-queen back in the day(her words). She also says nothing larger then me is allowed in her ass.

    She has one dildo her girlfriends gave her a long time ago after her divorce from her first. It is a 9" and decent girth. I will use it on her and tell her I am getting out my big dick tonight. She'll say oh yeah, stick that monster in me !

    Sex isn't about filling that thing to 100% capacity everytime she spreads. But it is fun once in a while, and I got the toys to do it. I told her we should get me a male strapon/extension so I can do it right, like in the movies. So no, I am bothered in ayway.
     
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    While there are dildos around that are longer than me, very few are thicker, so I doubt my wife would find one bigger in that dimension. So I'm not bothered about dildos, should she choose to buy one.
     
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    Yeah, and but I do think that it's perfectly normal for a woman to use a toy. But I prefer the real thing most of the time. However, it's great to have some solo time.
     
  8. Puss_in_boots

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    We just had a thread that discussed this very thing. I believe we came to the conclusion that sex toys are fine but they shouldn't be used as "replacements" for the real thing,..only as masturbation enhancements. Of course women need masturbatory aides just as men generally need to look at porn in order to become aroused.
     
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    Me and my wife love to use toys on each uther it allways leads to full sex its graet fun.
     
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    That pretty much sums it up... :lol