Sex toy issues!!

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  1. ohgeesh

    ohgeesh New Member

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    Life is good, wife is great, sex life is good to great, so what's the issue?

    It seems to be my growing fetish with large dildos! The thought of my wife using something larger than life is just the biggest turn on! It seems to be growing. I think about it all the time.............

    The other issue is 5 course sex........I always want it all the foreplay, kissing, teasing, multiple positions, and toys.

    For her that expectation is almost chore like......knowing that I always want that. I know this..... I don't want her to feel like it has to be Barnum and Bailey circus everytime we have sex, but it doesn't take the want away any advice on this?

    I hate quickies and to be honest if you gave me choice of a 5-10 minute sex I would pass it just does nothing for me,...... unless she said she wanted that.

    I think I'm becoming a little OCD whne it comes to sex toys......again any input would be great.

    We currently have two vibes a Eroscillator and a Silver Bullet neither do much for her. We have two Dildos 8x2 and 10x2.25 and a Anal toy.

    She's fine with just being with me.........while I want to swing from the banisters....

    Thx have a good weekend!!
     
  2. Mittimer

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    My advice is to not push her. If it's something she's not interested and you continue to push for it, it may turn her off from sex with you all together.

    Maybe talk to her and see if this can be a special thing. Once every so often, ya know? Have you really talked to her about all of this?
     
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    I would bring it up just to see how she reacts. Maybe when she really wants to give you something she might do it for her. I have gotten suprise reactions in the past. You dont know until you try.
     
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    Yeah it's like a ebb and flow. She is very random.....the day I'm off I'll clean the whole house, candles, have bath water waiting, etc etc .....it'll be regular sex. Then out of the blue after a long day at work or whatever she'll be all wanting to go 10 innnings with multiple times at bat......

    We have talked she just doesn't have the drive I have we are on seperate sides of the proverbial pod. We have talked many times over the years....I know I just need to be grateful that I get sex 2-4 times a week after being together for 10+ yrs.

    Many guys are getting it once a week or month.

    I'll keep ya posted and thanks......maybe I need a new hobby...lol.
     
  5. Barbwire

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    Firstly, I'd like to congratulate you for being in a relationship for 10+ years and secondly I'd like to commend you for coming to a forum looking for pointers.

    Good luck and welcome.

     
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    ...is your avatar half of a connecting rod? Funny sex forum choice...
     
  7. CosmicEye

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    ^ yes its a main bearing cap, I noticed that too. Drive something fun?

    Hmm well just catch her when shes in the right mood is all I have for you. Tease her or something for a few days to get her all anxious for you.

    ..Yeah I hear that happens in marriage after a while.. Good job to you, you must be doing something right lol
     
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    Drive a 08' Z06 modded.......it is fun. The cap is off a EVO I used to have.
     
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    I figured it was off a smaller engine, my Titan has 6 bolt mains


    From what I'm told, my sister uses a phone pole with a 454 strapped to it, and two pug wires pulled. Try that.
     
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    Funny!!
     
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    Post pics and info of Z06! But maybe in a more appropriate thread of course besides 'sex toy help' lol
     
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    I think it would be awesome in a sex toy thread! "This one Big Enough?"
     
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    haha

    "my blower sucks hard"
    "Should I lube this part?"
    "My rear end is leaking"
     
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    Could get unfortunate too.

    "Just had the CV axles apart. Balls are all black and blue, and even my shaft looks pretty pitted."
     
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    Hi Mittimer,
    you well siad. you are correct, I'm agree with you.