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Discussion in 'General Sex Discussion' started by Bella, Nov 3, 2006.
What would you consider to be your best sex tip...
aside from communication?
Tough one to answer. This may not be the type of answer that you are looking for but I would say that it would be to make sure your partner and you are compatiable in sex. If your are passionate about sex and he or she is there for ride, it will never be good.
It's all good!
Thanks for the response!
Paying cloooooose attention to body language. You can have hours of amazing sex without saying a single word as long as you can read body language and know what each other want.
My tip ...
The guy needs to get very good with his tongue.
Body language is a good one!
Shouldn't he already be good with that A1??
Alot of guys aren't or haven't thought about it.
So are you one of those guys??
Be willing to try most anything! This to me makes sex exciting and fun! I've been with gals who have such a long list of no-no s, that you end up feeling bored!
And it should be a 2 way street! For example one girl I dated wanted me to stick a toe up her vagina! This seemed a little strange to me. Honestly it doesn't turn me on, but neither does it turn me off! I figured, if she gets a kick out if it, why not? It seemed reasonably inoffensive. So, I'd lay on my back, and she'd mount my foot, and get my big toe in there. That put her head at about my belly-button level. And she was too fucused on her own pleasure to give me a blow job. And it was pretty fun! When she was finished we moved on to something I liked!
Maybe not try anything, but be open to each other's suggestions?
And like you said take turns trying different things.
You've got a point Bella. Personally I have a few reasonable limits. For example, anything that damages or seriously jeopardizes the body. For example I have seen on porn cases of guys going from anal to vaginal without washing! This is insane and EXTREMELY dangerous! The girl is almost guarenteed an infection! I've also had girls ask me to bite their nipples. One girl kept telling me, "Harder! Harder!" And I refused. I told her if I do it any harder, you are going to have bruises! And I drew a line.
Totally agree with you!
I am not into pain; just pleasure, so I am a pretty open person I think!
And you can be sure that if I like it...it is gonna happen again!
Best sex tip i could give is to try just about anything once, and keep and open mind.
Bella, can you please pull your pants down, just a few more inches!?
I will second the body language tip, I've had lots of casual sex and reading and understanding a new partner can lead a couple to all sorts of interesting places.
An example, I was having sex with a cute Chinese girl (in Beijing) and she was on top and laying on me, and I ran my hands around her slim bottom, and then brushed my fingers over her arsehole. She murmured with delight, so I did it again, and the same result. My finger was wet from doing g-spot and oral for her orgasm shortly before, so I slipped it in, and I just knew she loved it. So if one finger is good, then two is better, and clearly it was.
And if two fingers are better, then something might be better again. So I whispered in her ear and before I knew it...
LMAO!! Now how would you know if I did or didn't???
What happened to the "rest of the story"???
Just when it was getting good too!! Damn!! LOL!
Thanks for sharing!
I've never had sex with a Chinese girl! How are they? I've done it with Japanese (1) and Thai (1). That's it for my Asian experience. The Thai girl was older than I. We met here in S.America. She was miserably married to an American oil company exec. And she was mega hot! Almost scary! Very sweet nice person. Liked to be on top.