Sex tips

Discussion in 'General Sex Discussion' started by Anonymous1992, Aug 5, 2010.

  1. Anonymous1992

    Anonymous1992 New Member

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    Share one thing that you do that makes your sex life better, for example: im just beggining but i found that when fucking hard it helps to take deep controlled breaths.
     
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    Use the search button Anon....there's no shortage of tips on here:D
     
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    One thing that makes my sex life better? We have this silly little book. It's called the 'sex position bible'
    My fiancee and I are already very adventurous when it comes to sex, always trying new things, new toys ect. But every once in a while, we go through that book (It's got hundreds of full color real couple photographs of sex positions with the "how-to" on how to do it) and pick just one random position that looks interesting.

    It can be something simple, or some crazy wet pretzel with cheese position. It really varies. But it always makes for a good conversation piece later. We also look at porn together. We play 'games together' and we just generally have FUN.

    That's what really keeps it exciting for us. We have FUN. We laugh. When things are too serious with us, they get quite boring.
     
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    I will definitely agree with this. With my wife and I, the more we have seen sex as fun and enjoyable, the better it is. It is sometimes too easy (particularly for men, from my point of view) to focus on one's "performance" and miss the enjoyment. Having fun keeps things relaxed, and in the long run likely helps the "performance" anyway.

    Personally for me the best thing I can recommend to other guys is kegel exercises. They have worked for be both in control - even allowing me to "split" my orgasm- as well as for faster recovery. You may not see results overnight, but as with any exercise consistency is what will help make it work.
     
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    Deep and regular breathing during sex is one of the most important parts of Tantric sex. It does work; you are more 'in the moment', and you can last longer as well. Glad you stumbled onto it.
     
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    Have a lot of and good forplay prior to the act. I still love sexy outfits and the act of undressing my partner. Bubble baths are fun, with exotic oils, smells are important. Then the silly things like edible underwear and flavored oils are kind of a turn on prior. When the underwear first came out, I gained a lot of weight!