hi there, i do have a problem. my wife does not have much of a sex drive anymore! she will ask me to go for a hand job if ever im made any advance. so i masturbate everynight for the last 10 years. sex if any would be about once a month if i'm luckly. i enjoy oral sex giving it just as much as receiving it but unfortunately my wife is not into it. she ahs never given me head. occasionally, that's 22 years ago, she will allow me to eat her. i really enjoy eatng her and tasting all the juice that she ejaculate when she came but that was all history. i had not had the opportunity to eat her since 10 years ago. i would do anything to be able to taste and smell her vagina but alas that is denied me. is there any thing i can do to make her be less inhibited? needless to say i am having to use my hand everynight and that is very frustrating, we are in a monogamous realtionship. would like to hear if anyone else is in my predicament and how he handled it.