Sex standing upright

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  1. Amature

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    i grew up in the 70's. Back then, the porn I looked at and the people I talked to about sexual activity was pretty much just straight penis in vagina sex. Occasionally you'd hear about oral sex, but nothing like today. Anymore if you're not doing oral you are in a minority. And I never heard of much anal. Which brings me to my question. How many couples have intercourse while standing upright? It seems most every movie I watch, everything from porn to soft porn, from a romance to a mystery, the couples fuck standing up. Unless a guy is hung like a Shetland pony, I didn't think this was even possible. Especially if the woman is standing with both feet on the ground. Is this position as common as it is portrayed, or is it just a new fad, or am I just that naive and uneducated?
     
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    I agree with you, Amature. Standing up sex while face to face is more awkward and difficult than the pleasure it provides (for me anyway) - it is made more easy if the lady is at least the same height or slightly taller than me.
    Now the same cannot be said of rear entry standing sex, that is definitely more satisfying and easier to achieve as the lady leans forward and it is simple to get inside her - you also have easy access to breasts, pussy and clit from this position also :)
     
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  3. Alwayslearningsex

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    I tried it a bit too, and while having her against the wall.
    We quickly went back to the sex-in-bed routine, so much better
     
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  4. Ra1nb0wUnderwear

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    We've never even attempted standing up sex. There's a seven inch height difference between me and the semi-SO and a ten inch height difference between me and the not-so-SO. The logistics just aren't there.

    Standing up while making out, oral, fingering.. that's fair game.
     
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    My bf is 6'2 where I am 5'5... We've attempted and it super awkward.
     
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    We did it but the first try her feet were on the floor. It was no good, then she had her legs around my waist and hips.
    A bit of thrusting there but more work keeping her up in the air. And she is only 3" shorter than I am.
     
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    It is not only possible and highly erotic but the severe limitation is compatible body shape, size and height, nuff said :)
     
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    The boyfriend and I have sex standing up very often. I need to be about three inches higher for a good fit, which I can adjust easily with high heels, or standing on something, and so on. It's very wonderful and erotic--we can both move, we have our hands free, there aren't any issues with our weight on each other, we can do it in places where there isn't a lot of room, it has a sort of immediate kind of feeling, and the advantages go on and on.
     
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    It can be difficult but I have done it and it of course is fun however it also can be tiring . I do love taking a woman from behind while standing up...it's a workout for my legs too :)
     
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    When we were younger it was worth the effort. I am 7 or 8 inches taller than her so it involved some adjustments. I would spread my legs out to lower my center of gravity or sort of do a half squat behind her. we didn't get much thrusting like this but we liked the urgency and the variety. Now it just seems silly.