Sex Standing Up, Need Help

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  1. legendi

    legendi New Member

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    I have been fantasizing about having sex with my girlfriend with us standing up, her facing me, and me picking her off the ground and letting her ride me. She could wrap her legs around me and her arms around my neck.

    I just wanted to ask a few experienced people on this forum who have done this a couple of questions...

    - Is this a position that can only be done if the guy is really long? I am not porn star sized, but not small either. I am just wondering if any guy who has avg to slightly above avg equipment has ever done this position before?

    - I am a little afraid of my dick getting bent the wrong way with so much force coming down on it (my g/f isn't very big, but still over 100lbs of weight isn't anything to laugh at). I was unlucky enough to see a documentary about men who actually broke their dicks during sex, so this is a position that worries me a little. How much risk is there doing this position?

    Thanks for answering my questions :)
     
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    I already searched and read through that thread - but it didn't specifically answer my questions.

    Which is why I took the time to type everything out hoping to gain some real insight from experienced people who have done this and could answer my questions, not be redirected back to a thread I have already read through.

    That is the point of this forum, to help answer people's questions when they can't find an answer, even after taking an hour to read through old threads before posting mine.
     
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    So sorry, I had no way of knowing that since you made no mention of it, and it is still an active thread discussing the subject you have questions about. Maybe the experienced people who have done this and can answer your questions will hop over from there to your thread and continue the discussion here.

    SF is pretty slow on the weekends, maybe there will be some useful answers in the next day or so.

    By the way, I am familiar with the point of this forum, I've been here before. My response was meant to be helpful, not to piss you off. We're a pretty relaxed crowd around here.:cool
     
  5. legendi

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    I'm not pissed off, just trying to find answers before I try this. No biggie.
     
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    Legendi, this happens to be my favourite position for sex.
    If you want to contact me direct.
     
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    My fav.
     
  8. legendi

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    I'm j/w directly about the questions I asked basically.

    Does this position work if you are avg. size?

    How great is the risk of hurting my dick?
     
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    Standing up sex doesn't have to be where you are totally supporting her in this way. She could be standing on something of the right height so she can support her own weight and still be high enough so you can enter her. It would be a lot more relaxing for both of you.
     
  10. legendi

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    Ya we have done that though...

    It just seems like doing it the way I described would be much more intense for both of us.

    I'm strong enough that it won't be a problem to hold her up. I just wasn't sure how difficult it is in terms of getting inside her, if my dick will be at a bad angle and could get hurt, etc.

    Both questions are related, really. If this is a shallow position and she keeps slipping out, then there is a greater chance of me hurting my dick. Like I said I'm a little above avg. in size, but not a porn star or anything.

    I've never had a problem with slipping out of her before - this just seems like the one position it could happen, so it has me a little nervous.

    I keep wanting to do it, but always hesitate. I guess I was just hoping to hear from couples who actually did it like this before and had no problems, and could offer any tips that I could use... to give me the confidence to finally try this.