When Evman posted this "glory hole" idea, my first reaction was no way! But if say 3 or 4 couples who I know and trust organized an event just for us, I might go for it! If we set some ground rules in advance, like banning male-on-male sex, it might be a cool idea! I saw this thing on TV showing how some couples do organize parties like this. The main ground rule was "the women rule"! The women were free to do as they wanted, and had total veto power to say no, and stop at any point. I saw one news item about this place in Texas in a suburban home where the neighbors were complaining, and the authorities didn't know what to do, since no laws were being broken! I have the impression that such parties are extremely rare. I don't mean a prossional swap club, but rather a small scale private thing among friends. I've never met a person who has been to one, nor have I been to one myself. Have you?