Sex moves that drive us girls wild in bed

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  1. miss_playful101

    miss_playful101 New Member

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    My boyfriend and I have always had a pretty good sex life, but in the last few months he’s been full of surprises doing loads of new things that I never even new existed and It’s been the best sex I’ve ever had in my life. A few months ago he was surfing online and found these ebooks at themenschamber . com . I don’t know why he didn’t want to tell me this sooner but hey I’m not complaining In fact I’ve never been happier Lol..

    I can’t fit everything I’ve learnt lately in this thread but here are a couple of very simple bedroom tricks for the guys, that are driving a lot of us women wild in bed.

    The Experi Mint
    This technique really packs a huge payoff for very little prep work. Some
    women claim that different cough drops provide varying degrees of
    stimulation. It seems to be purely a matter of personal preference, so
    don't be afraid to experiment with a variety of brands and flavors.
    Here's What You Need:
    One mentholated cough drop, any flavor.
    Here's How You Do It:
    Get your woman naked.
    Unwrap the cough drop and put it in your mouth. You need to give it a
    couple of minutes to partially dissolve; so use this time to pepper her
    belly, bikini line and inner thighs with little kisses.
    Swirl the cough drop around in your mouth, making sure to rub the tip of
    your tongue against it. Now, keeping the cough drop in your mouth,
    gently begin to lick around the vagina, paying special attention to the
    clitoris. In a few moments your woman will begin to feel both the hot and
    cool sensation of the menthol penetrating her body.
    For added stimulation, pause every minute or so and gently blow on the
    clitoris (the air reactivates the cooling properties of the menthol and
    provides a sensation most women find immensely pleasurable).
    Women all over the world have gone absolutely crazy for this little ditty.
    Done properly, it will have her yodelling!!!

    Walking the Wall
    This is a great way to find just the right angle to stimulate her G-spot.
    Here's How You Do It:
    Get your woman naked. You, too.
    Have her sit on the edge of the bed with her legs apart.
    With you standing, enter your woman.
    Have her bend her knees, letting her feet rest on your stomach.
    As you continue thrusting, tell your woman to "walk" up your chest,
    placing one foot in front of the other.
    As she does this, you'll stimulate different areas of her vagina. It's up to
    your woman to determine exactly where she should be on "the wall" to
    achieve an indescribable orgasm. Watch for the screaming orgasm though!! a towel underneath her usually helps keep the bed clean…

    Oral Stimulation
    Most of my female friends I have talk to about this say men don’t really understand where to pleasure a woman the best around this area.
    Yes the clit is very sensitive but the underside is even more sensitive as are the outer and inner lips.
    While working the tip of your tongue along the outer lips up one side and down the other side all the way to the bottom and back up again doing this a few times you'll know your doing it right but the sounds your partner will be making.
    With your thumb and fore finger slightly open the lips and lick the inner lips and flick your tongue as it licks the inner lips basically tickling your partner.
    Most men try to suck their partner, just use your tongue to lick and gently tickle every inch of her as though you are tasting her.
    Make your way to her clit and kiss and nibble on it with the tip of your tongue flick the front of the clit ever so gently and lick the underside with a little extra pressure after a few strokes of your tongue increase the pressure as your partner moves to meet your every stroke of your tongue.
    Here is where the fun really heats up insert a finger or two as your stroking the underside of her clit with your tongue.
    I have found that using toys vibrators works the best to give a earth shattering screaming orgasm.
    You'll know what your doing to give your partner that screaming orgasm by the way she moves, moans, purrrs, breathing.

    That’s all I’ve got room for here! I’m sure there are probably some people here who have tried these moves, if so let us know what you liked! And my question here for the guys! what things drive you wild in the bedroom, gives us girls some tips!

    Peace
    Atryla
     
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  2. The_Mech

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    Let's get down to business...

    You may or may not already know that the all-powerful clitoris is the key... but just knowing what it is and touching it don't get the job done.

    For anyone reading this that may not know, the clitoris is a small round thing (kind of, more oval than round) that is at the very top of the pussy on the outside. It hides just underneath the area where the two outer-lips meet at the top (up where hair would be if they didn't shave), and it "peeps out" a little and grows slightly when stimulated... just like our dicks grow but not so dramatically, on women it is barely noticeable.

    The clitoris (or clit) is what gives women the most pleasure and the most pain during sex... that's why the most important thing to remember when dealing the clit is balance. Too much stimulation will make her clit so sensitive that she will become uncomfortable, while too little stimulation will never make her orgasm. Rubbing too hard on the clit will hurt her (remember it's probably the most sensitive/fragile part of her body... think about someone rubbing really hard on your sack, not fun huh?), but rubbing too soft will not stimulate her enough. So remember, balance is the key ingredient.

    Rubbing on her clit in a circular motion before sex is highly advised, because if you do not do it then making her orgasm during sex will be much harder (some girls prefer clockwise, some prefer counter-clockwise... try both and whichever gets the best reaction out of her is what you should continue with). Do that for about 3-5 minutes while kissing her lips, neck and tits (get used to multi-tasking... it's a needed trait if you wanna be great in the sack).

    Next tell her to start suckin' you off, you can skip this if you want to hop right in the puss... but personally I prefer the "best of both worlds approach". If possible do this with you lying or sitting on the bed in a way that allows her to be beside you so you can reach around her ass from behind and continue stimulating the clit. Around this point I usually start talking dirty and make them try to answer me with my dick in their mouth, talking dirty really turns them on and when they make noise while blowing you the vibrations from their vocal chords feels good and adds a little spice to the act.

    After about another 3-5 minutes start intercourse. Don't be afraid to try a bunch of different positions, because this is important in making her orgasm which you'll learn in a moment. Spend at least 5 minutes in a each position as switching too often can kill the mood. Ready to learn something that'll turn you into a better lover than 99% of the guys in the world? Forget EVERYTHING that you've learned from watching porno! Porn stars are the absolute worst when it comes to banging girls, and the way that they do it in porn could not make a woman cum if they hit it for 10 hours straight. Let me explain...

    Sex in porn movies is all about getting the "right angle" so the viewers can see all of the action... sex in real life is not supposed to be that way, well at least if you wanna make women orgasm it's not. You need to keep your body much closer to the girl's to make her reach an orgasm, so close that if someone were watching they would not be really able to see much of anything going on "down below". This is why porn stars are doing it all wrong, they bang chicks in a way that allows for good camera angles, not good sex... if they were to do it the right way then the porno would be stupid and the viewers would not be able to see anything.

    So why all this close contact? It's all about the clit remember!

    You could easily bang girls like the porn stars do and reach your hand down and rub the clit right? Sure you could, and sometimes that works very well... but if you really wanna "knock that pussy out" every single time there is a much easier and more effective way to do it... and thats by keeping your body close. The trick behind this is to gently rub the area that is just above your manhood but just below your stomach against her clit as you pump inwards... and when I say gently I mean very gently. Once you start doing this to her you will know immediately why it's so much better than using your hand, she will instantly start breathing heavier and moaning louder... she may even throw in a few "Oh shit"s or "Oh my god"s. This technique is pure gold.

    Have you ever been watching a porno an noticed the girl start rubbing her clit herself while she was getting hammered? It was because she was lacking this type of stimulation... and that alone should show you how important it is. Girls CAN NOT get off without any clit stimulation at all.

    While switching up positions you may flip her and start going at it doggy style (a personal favorite of mine), but then you'll instantly notice that you can't rub your body against her from this position. No problem... I have a quick fix : You need to substitute your hand in this situation because it is your only alternative... so reach your hand around her and do your thing while you watch that ass jiggle... problem solved.

    Ok, by now you should have had enough fun and should have her hot and sweaty enough to be ready for the big moment... time to hit her with your secret weapon and make sure she'll NEVER forget you...

    Have you been wondering why I haven't mentioned the G Spot until now? That is because the whole point is to avoid it until the last position you'll be in, this is where everything comes "crashing down" on her and she gets lost in a sweaty mess of ecstasy that'll leave her legs shaking for an hour. For those of you who don't know the G Spot is inside of the pussy on the top wall, it's kind of "behind" the clit... but don't worry about finding it... you don't have to.

    Here is what you do : Lay her on her back and get on top of her and start hittin' it in the normal missionary position. Next lift both of her legs up REAL high and put the back of her ankles on your shoulders... then make sure to put your arms on the inside between her legs and you. This allows you to kinda "hold her in position" while you pound away... women love the feeling of being dominated during sex and this helps bring them to an orgasm. Next pump once or twice (remember close contact, you should be rubbing all up on the clit right now... a little harder than before) and when you do watch her reaction. She looked at you like "Holy ^%$#, your the man!" didn't she? You know why? It's because you just came with everything that gives her pleasure in one powerful pussy pounding package all at once : You are holding her down, your dick is crazy hard right now (because this is the best feeling position for us as well), your are rubbing her clit with your body, AND... you guessed it... now your hitting her G Spot. Don't worry if you don't feel it, from this position it is impossible to miss the G Spot at long as your dick is over 3 inches when hard... because thats about how far in it is on most girls. Sometimes you can feel it with every pump, but other times you don't feel it at all... I have no idea why but it really don't matter because the end result is the same.

    Only one thing left to do... Start nailin' it!

    She will orgasm from only about 2 minutes of this, 5 max. Just control yourself because this is where your mind power will play a major role... you need to make sure not to blow your load before she cums! This is going to be harder than you think because when I say this position will feel good to you I ain't playin'... it feels REALLY damn good, and it'll make you ruin all of the work you've done if you let it. Just keep your mind clear of any thoughts about sex and keep doing your thing... also try to ignore what she does because at this point she will be screaming and moaning like crazy and may be scratching the hell out of your back... all of which are things that can distract you. Keep at it till she gets hers than get yours in as well... light up a smoke and listen to her tell you how much better you are than anyone she has been with and how she never thought sex could be that good.

    Only thing you gotta worry about now is how to make her leave you alone :)
     
  3. The_Mech

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    Every single woman I have been intimate with has definitely had many orgasms- and they will ALWAYS cum before me -because I MAKE SURE THEY DO!
    I like to talk dirty to a woman -before and during sex.
    I will tell her how good her @ussy tastes while I am going down on her and I'll tell her what I am going to do with my @ock when I am done licking her.
    Sometimes I will tease and not put it in her until she screams "put your @ock in my @ussy"
    From my experience, talking dirty usually gets women turned on to a point where orgasms are easily attained.
     
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    Foreplay, oral, fingering then a long sex session lasting at least 30 mins should almost always do the trick.
     
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    Interesting 'read'.
    Pros:
    Several good, solid tips.
    Descriptive and instructive positions.
    Humorous interjection

    Cons:
    Generalizing of what a woman wants... likes... needs...to get excited. We're as different as night day in what we want, when we want it, and how soft or rough we desire it.
    Scientific approach to an emotional/physical/spiritual fusion of two people.

    Did you compose this? Looks 'googled' - but then you may be a very gifted writer.
     
  6. miss_playful101

    miss_playful101 New Member

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    :lolLol it does sound a bit googled, but never the less informative and any useful input here is much appreciated! And yes what works in the bedroom differs from person to person, hence why the more ideas you have in your arsenal the more likely you are to hit spot etc

    Thought I'd add a couple of fellatio points for his pleasure, they're just basic, will add some more advanced stuff here later, feel free to add some insights of your own guys and girls!

    BTW everyone is free to put their points here without fear :nerv of being scrutinised by any of the forum critics (I hope)In other words I prefer posts that are relevant to the thread ' thats why I put it here! to refresh peoples memory 'sex moves that drive us girls wild' (as stated in the thread title) and bedroom moves to pleasure the guy's (as stated at the bottom of my initial thread)

    Here goes:brow

    T-Bagging, It?s Not Just for Brits:Teasing his testicles: Don?t be afraid of the wrinklies. The wrinklies like the oral loving too. As much I can?t imagine what it feels like to get a blow job, I truly cannot fathom what it feels like to have one?s testes sucked, but I hear it?s really rather lovely. You can suck one ball at a time, or you can suck both together, and if you?ve got a long tongue, you can then stick it out and lick around what is commonly known as the ?taint,? and is officially known as the ?perineum.? I know I like mine licked, so I assume my man does too. His favourite is when I take the entire testicle in my mouth and gently suck and move my tougue around, drives him nuts.

    It can be quite novel to start the blowjob from the testes and work up; especially if you?ve been with your lover a while, this change is a simple way to shake things up a tiny bit. You can also, once you?re made the porn-starry spit and started your hand going, drop your head between your man?s parted thighs and take his testes in your mouth, running your tongue around interestingly and sucking gently, while you let your hand do what it does.


    Bobbing for Semen: Deep Throat: I don?t know why it took me so long to realize this, but at some point in my twenties, I discovered it was entirely appropriate to use both my hand and my mouth together whilst sucking my man?s cock. Because I can deep-throat, and because I?ve always been able to deep-throat, it never occurred to me that using my hand wasn?t cheating. When I finally let the thought dawn in my sometimes dim conscience, I realized that it wasn?t cheating; it was just a good time.

    Placing the cock as far back in your throat as it can just uncomfortably go will help you gag, and gagging will produce that lovely, highly viscous porn-starry spit that makes an incredible lube. I like to make that spit and then utilize it for the oral-topped hand job. And once I?ve made the spit, I find that it?s very easy to move my hand from my delicate hold around the base of my man?s cock to stroking up and down his shaft in time with my head.

    Sometimes I use my mouth and hand in concert, smooshing my hand down my man?s cock with my mouth chasing after. Other times, I?ll use a very open grip with a quick, light stroke just in the center of his cock while I tongue and suck the head of his cock. Still other times, I?ll meet my hand and mouth in the center of his cock and pull out with my hand toward the base and toward the tip with my mouth. Sometimes too, I?ll use one hand to grip the base of his cock, sometimes wrapping a finger down and under his balls, while I use the other hand on the center of his shaft and busy my mouth on the tip. It?s all good, coordinated, opposable-thumbed fun.

    To be continued...;)
    Peace
    Atryla
     
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    MP101, Are you really 31 years old.
    Try these
    A Popsicle and a hot cup of coffee, Have him rub the Popsicle over your pussy
    then take a drink of the hot coffee and hold as much of it in his mouth
    as he can Then lick your pussy.
    (ice cubes will do but they don't taste as good as a Popsicle) flavored pussy is good.
    Next lean against a wall with him in front of you. Have him to peck you up
    from behind your legs, Lock your legs behind his back and have him sit
    you down on his cock.
    A mint flavored altoid works better than a cough drop.
    Put a peeled banana in your pussy and let him eat it.

    Should I go on.

    Hiker

    Hiker
     
  8. miss_playful101

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    Yes I'm 30

    And yes you should definitely go on...:bow
    That sounds great Hiker! My boyfriend liked the sound of that one to we'll give it a try within the next few days and let you know how it was (so many moves to try, so little time lol)

    But yeah really we're having alot of fun lately and we owe most of it to the themenschamber but some of it was our own ideas and ideas from other people on the message boards

    Heres another move we tried recently that gave me an explosive orgasm during intercourse. Its one thats depicted in a famous art work! in other words an oldy but a goodie:brow and to add, us girls love the passionate romantic moves as well, so add this one to your sex arsenal

    The Sexual Position in Boccaccio

    The woman is on her back, with a pillow under her buttocks.

    This raises her hips very much toward the man. The man is standing, and places himself between her legs.

    The man gently raises the lady’s thighs high as possible, pressing them even to her breasts. The man then grabs the lady’s arms, in a loving embrace.

    At this point, the man will penetrate the woman, finding this position has compressed her vagina, and making it very tight and close. The sensation is wonderful for both the man and woman.

    The man should not thrust but press and rotate hips leaving his penis fully inserted.

    This brings an exquisite pleasure to the woman as the man’s penis is up against the g-spot and the man feels the full pressure from the vagina’s muscles and compressed space.

    The man must keep his penis fully inserted, and make false thrusts with his hips as pressure only.

    The circular and gyrating motion of the man’s hips can be fully reciprocated by the womans.

    Because this position is quite tiring for the woman, she will usually climax and very quickly, and usually with whole body spasms.


    GUYS: I'd also like to add here; Don’t be disheartened if your partner doesn't orgasm in the beginning when attempting moves that are aimed at giving her orgasm during intercourse! Most women don’t orgasm from intercourse alone. What the two of you need to focus on is having her orgasm via manual and oral stimulation first, and then you can move on to more advanced techniques and try to orgasm during intercourse. If she’s really uncomfortable masturbating in front of you in the beginning, why not try a little phone sex? You won’t be with her in person, but your voice will, and I’m sure you can think of some loving and sexy things to help her along.

    Keep the ideas coming;)

    Atryla
     
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    Wow, my husband and I were experimenting a few weeks back and we actually did something very similar to the "walking the wall." All I can say is WOW. It has become one of our favorite positions now.