DW and I have two teenage sons. We have a big house and our bedroom is at the opposite end from theirs, but that doesn't work well anymore. They stay up late and are worldly enough to recognize when we are doing it. We both feel that them knowing we are in love and that we have sex is normal and healthy, but we still don't want to be heard if we can help it. Assuming is one thing, but hearing mom and dad going for it is quite another. We still are able to have sex, but it's in the dark, quiet and stealthy. Neither of us are comfortable dressing up, getting kinky, playing with toys to much of an extent while they are wandering the house, even with our door locked. Even if we do we can hardly express ourselves the way we really want and god forbid one of them catches us:ugh I guess we are looking for ideas. What do you do? We go on dates and we've taken "drives" in the evenings. Not the same. We want out house back!:lol When they were young and asleep at 9:00 pm we could pull out the lingerie and toys, go a little nuts. When they were really young we could even use the living room. No we feel like we are the teenagers, sneaking around, having sex in the car, humping quietly in the bed hoping we aren't heard. Worse yet is we live in the country an hour from any serious night life (niteclubs, bars, strip bars, etc.) They aren't old enough to be left alone over night for a couple more years. Any ideas would be welcome. We make due and soon enough they will be gone and we can have our freedom back. But in the mean time we're looking for ideas on how to cope.