Hey guys, Been with my gf now for nearly 1 year! So, sex life was good in the beginning.. we would have sex fairly often.. now tho, since the 6months line, things have started to slow. I would say we have sex mabye 2 times a month.. I really want more.. So i asked her why we dont have it more often. She said that she didnt feel in the mood that often. This wouldnt do for me so I pushed it a bit. She told me that while with her ex, the last year or so of their relationship, whenever they had sex, it would really hurt her, and they would stop. Could it be something psycological that is preventing her from wanting sex more often? How often do you guys have/want sex? It's starting to get me down, having to masturbate, when I could be with my gf, who i really love. Is it healthy to only want to have sex so rarely? Any advice would be great, stories, info anything =) Thanks!