Hello everyone, I am writing today because my girlfriend and I need some advice. She is a virgin, in every sense of the word; she has never even kissed a guy before I came along. Just lately we have started becoming increasingly more sexual and we are at the stage where we are ready to try intercourse. I have been sexual with other women before, but never a virgin. I am EXTREMELY patient, and the last thing I want to do is hurt her. We tried intercourse once, (I warned her it was going to hurt and suggested we tried some fingering first, but she didn't want that because she said it freaked her out) I went as slowly as she needed... and... she yelled out in pain. We stopped immediately. I guess I should stop babbling and just get to my question. Ladies, how bad was your first time, and how much would you suggest starting off with some fingering before we go straight for the whole shibang?