Sex games

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  1. AA86

    AA86 New Member

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    So I'm happily married man who finds my wife sexy as hell still, and we have regular sex. we recently have tried a few couples sex games involving dice and cards to spice up our sex life, and its been fun, but im looking for more ideas of fun games to play in the bedroom, anyone have anything for me?
     
  2. McGumby

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    Depends on what you are into. We enjoy tease and denial games. She plays with me, has sex with me, but I can't come. The dice are a good way to determine different aspects, like how many days or how many edges (being brought to the edge of orgasm). Google "Orgasm Denial" or "Tease and Denial". If you're wife might enjoy being teased, it seems the opposite is true for women. Forced orgasms are the female equivalent of orgasm denial.

    We also have made up some games with a list of different sex acts, half her choices, half mine and we role and whatever comes up is what we do. Some are pretty straight forward, say dressing up in lingerie or watching porn, but a few are more daring, like sex in public, or unusual, like no touching genitals (we have to try and get off without direct contact to our genitals).

    We have a few that require we role multiple dice to determine place, method, dress, etc. We bought a pound of dice from a role playing shop. It has 4, 6, 8, 10, 12 and 20 sided dice in all colors. Great for making up games. I type up the rules, print them out, fold them up and keep them in a small ziploc bag with the necessary dice. When we're in the mood, we grab one and play. Just Google "Pound of Dice"

    Sometimes we make games up on the fly. My wife and I might be having sex and she decides I might need to be denied. She grabs a die and maybe odd means come, even means denial. The best part is she can make the odds do what she wants. If she wants me to come, but wants to tease me, she makes one number the denial number and all the rest come. She wants to give me a small chance to come, just to opposite. When we both are feeling lazy, we role the dice to determine who does all the work. Whatever.
     
  3. Alwayslearningsex

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    To echo other comments, depends on your imagination and boundaries.
    try role play - different scenarios; food sex; blidfold each other and maybe tieing your partner; try toys or new ways to stimulate each other; groping and other fun things as you drive; daring sex in daring places like in a movie theater (example is coat on your lap as she plays with you under, wear a condom in case you blow your load); watch porn that you both are fine with; lots of foreplay; rough sex; slow and gentle sex; try toys on each other.
    Inviting someone else in your sex times is an option but not suited for everyone, it can ruin some relationships, it can be fun for others, so I am not one to tell you to do it unless you both really know each other, feeling secure and without issues between you and partner.
     
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    I may have mentioned this before, I vaguely recall another thread like this. One game we play is a word game, where we give a common word a private meaning and use it in public. For example, just before getting together to socialize with a group, I will whisper to Bunnie "every time I say the word 'change", it really means that I am thinking about fondling your tits and sucking your nipples". I then try to use that word in conversation when Bunnie is within hearing distance, and give her a look when I do. It is a great private "turn on" in a public setting, and when we finally return home to privacy we are ready to rip each others clothes off.

    We are also competitive with each other in games and sports, and will make sexual "bets" to challenge (or distract) each other. For example, if we are playing golf and I have a long putt, Bunnie may slyly say "If you make this I'll suck you and swallow all of it when we get home". These "challenges" can act as either a positive or negative impact to ones concentration on the task at hand. :D
     
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    how do I love those games))
     
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    You have absolutely no idea how happy it makes me when someone accuses me of bullshit. Thanks! :)