i am a virgin and i am wondering what i should do when i have sex for the first time? for the guys what did you do on the first time and what do you wish you did better? for the girls what did you do for the first time and what did you wish they did to you instead of what they did? how did it go in details? what happened and what was the best part and what do you wish happened? how did it start and how did it end, what lead up to it? i am just curious and i would like to know more about it also, when you took the condom off, what did you do with it? i assume going to the bathroom would ruin the moment, after your first time did you cuddle or just leave it at that?