is there anything i can do to make it hurt less for her? this isn't my first time, but it's hers. i even got lube and everything but i can't go more than an inch in without her saying it hurts too much. the thing is, her hymen is already broke because she had to have some stuff done to her by her gynecologist a while back. we've already tried doing it a few times but she always complains about the pain, but sometimes she can go for a while when on top. is there anything i can do to make it less painful for her?