Sex drive and body parts

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  1. Flame

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    I have a friend with an extremely high libido. He likes to have sex every morning and evening and more often on the weekend. He is also very into girls' legs and the whole upskirts thing.

    Two other guys I know, also with very high sex drives are obsessed with breasts. Another guy's thing is a girl with a great ass in tight pants.

    On the other hand, another man I know has an incredibly low libido and he doesn't have a preference for any particular body part.

    So, my question is this: Is there a connection or are there men with high sex drives who aren't into a particular body part? Presumably, if you have a low libido, nothing about the female body will get you going...
     
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    Hmmm. How do I explain my own preferences here? I have a relatively high libido, and I also tend to be "visually oriented". I do like breasts, butts, thighs, and the whole package, but I can't call myself a "breast man" or "butt man" per se. I just love feminine curves. I really like a sweet smile too :)

    Would you rate this answer as A, helpful or B, confusing? :lol
     
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    i think the question is interesting. are men who are attracted to certain body parts more visually oriented? and is this a direct link to their sexual libido? it will be interesting to see what men say!
     
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    For me it is the facial features first always but the rest follows downwards soon after.
    A woman does not need to be beautiful to be sexually alluring, sometimes the shape of the eyes, cheeks, lips, neck or even ears is enough to get my pulse racing.
    Body curves sure catches my attention but even more so does body attitude.
    So nope I am not a "specialist" in regards to anatomy attraction.
     
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    i look at every body part, but to me it comes down the touch and feeling of smooth soft curvy skin...that gets my sexuality all riled up.
     
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    three of my ex boyfriends had very high libidos, two of them were (overly) obsessed with tits and the other one was obsessed with big asses. the other guys i dated still had a pretty good libido but weren't too picky about what was jiggled in their face
     
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    When I was single body parts may have attracted my eye, but it was the face and personality that would get my drive going.

    With my wife, I have a high drive but her drive is a definite factor in this. Once it became clear to me how much she enjoyed sex and looked forward to my giving her that type of attention, that sent my drive into overdrive. :D
     
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    I think there is a lot of conditioning involved in preferences. Historically the concept of beauty has evolved. If you look at paintings from rennaisance times yo will notice that larger women were preferred. That had a lot to do with cultural norms. I think there are also individual conditioning factors. For instance I am more torned on by a natural hair pattern than by shaving but then again I have never been with a woman who shaved. Who knows maybe I would change my mind
     
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    I don't have a preference I like the entire woman body and I have an extremly high libido
     
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    That may well be true. I have a pretty high drive and tend to appreciate breasts a lot but I also have agree with others that said they like everything from faces to hair, etc.
     
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    I've always had a high libido but I don't point to one area. It has to be the whole package. Small tight athletic body with nice proportional breasts and a pleasant face. Any one is missing, I was out...on to the next one. I'll take note of a killer little ass or great rack, but if the face isn't there, or if she has a tight ass, but over stuffed tits, or nice tits and a large ass...nope.
     
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    i don't think it means they have higher libidos. its just that those things get guys going. i'm sure if the other guy finds "his" thing, he'll be aroused a lot more.
    for me personally, legs is what does it for me. that and stomachs, i know its weird but i love kissing, and carressing, and blowing, and licking, and rubbing, and nuzzling on a womans body, mmmmmm :)
     
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    Hey dude, there is nothing weird about that at all.
     
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    *laughs* that is A, helpful! I was wondering if liking just one body part much more than the others was connected to a high libido. I guess it's not; having a high libido is linked to wanting sex which is triggered by liking any body part...
     
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    :lol :lol :lol
     
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    sounds fantastic to me--anything but weird!
     
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    whoops! that last post was in response to nyxx.
     
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    For me it is a mood. Also depends on what my wife is wearing. :). I would say I have a pretty strong libido and am not fussy about what body part. Like them all
     
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    Put me in the total package group. I have a thing for hair...and that is where my curiosity starts. From there...its everything else. Cant think of anything that is a definite deal-breaker...
     
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    So... for you guys with high sex drives, would you say that although it may not be one specific body part that gets you going, there are definitely ways to get you in the mood? For example, one minute you don't feel like having sex at all and then something you see her wearing or doing or something she says or does will turn you on and you'll be ready to go?

    In other words, what gets you from 0 to almost-100 in just a few seconds? :)