I do not dream a lot , or just remember a lot , but over the last few months I have had a lot of sex dreams about some exs. Now only a few have gotten very sexual , all are pretty hot. I do enjoy them. I would never cheat on my wife. Now I know there are different ideas on cheating bit as far as our idea of cheating I would never do it. And yes I still see these girls as very attractive but that's it. And of course I have fantasies that do not include my wife (yes a lot do include her). My wife is plenty hot ( hence some of the hotwife fantasies). sex dreams in the past are sort of rare. My questions are : Why my exs and why suddenly ? How many of you do this and why do you think? Does this make me a bad person? Have you told your current partner if you do dream of exs? I am not several disturbed by this or anything. Just curious. I know she used to have a rampant amount of sex dreams but it doesn't seem anymore or at least she doesn't tell me anymore. I am not bothered or wasn't bothered when she admitted she had sex dreams with exs.