Hello there people, I have been searching the net for some answers, because i didn't wanted to burden you sweet people by posting too much questions, but again the net isn't sufficient enough and i will need some help/advice froom you guys ^^ The story is that my gf and me are sexually active. And for a time when we are really hankering for each other and we are experiencing steamy sex we sometimes get so pumped up that we enjoy to slap each other or the choke each other. Of course we pay attention that we don't hurt each other in such a way that we are still experiencing pain afterwards and that we do get to breathe so now and then. But this tendency of ours is highly enjoyable and i was wondering if there was a name for what we are doing, is it some kind of fetisj? And how can i find sex which resembles this on the net( whith wich kinds of words do i need to search) Please feel free to comment on this, fill me in,share youre own experiences of give me some advice/info. I am thanking you in advance Lots of love P.