Sex and Pregnancy

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  1. aksuperpunk

    aksuperpunk New Member

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    Hello everyone,
    So i'm 8 months pregnant, and until I went on bed rest:ugh , my SO and I continued to have sex.:)

    I'm just curious to know how others feel about sex during pregnancy?
    Men and Women? is it a turn-on? Turn-off? Anything specific that you may or may not like about it?

    Also, can anyone think of anything else to do, other than oral or mutual masterbation to do with my SO? it doesn't have to involve orgasm, just something to make us feel closer.
     
  2. Nettle

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    I felt very sexy while I was pregnant. Normally I hate my tummy, but while pregnant that was no longer relevant, so I enjoyed my rounded shape :)

    Shame hubby didn't feel the same.
     
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    :( then he is an idiot! A pregnant woman is a beautiful thing :) and to be honest, a huge turn on :D

    I find the idea of having sex with my SO if she ever gets pregnant really arousing...I dont even know if I can explain it.

    Is it universal for women's nipples to become huge when pregnant btw? Im sure I picked up somewhere that generally they get bigger as some sort of primate mating sign - or something like that?

    but yeah - turn on for me
     
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    pregnant women turn me on so much

    you can still have sex in certain positions cant you ?
     
  5. Nettle

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    A womans nipple usually change colour from pink to brown, I didn't notice a size difference on me. Not sure about others.

    Later in pregnancy some positions get awkward, at the very late stages we used to spoon on our sides.

    Very deep pentration could be uncomfortable, and unwise if he is big.
     
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    First of all, congrats! Is it a boy or a girl? :)

    I've heard some men being afraid of hurting the baby..while other men think it's super hot, because it's so..female to be pregnant.
     
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    Never tried sex with a pregnant female.....not to sure my size would be wise...but if the lady i was with was ok with that then i would pleasure her as much as i could without hurting her in the process.

    Breasts i think youll find get bigger not nipples ( that could be why some guys think the nipples do get bigger, a trick of the eyes hehe)

    On a period i have .....need to find a female wholl let me make her pregnant so i can see if she would let me make love to her during that time frame :)
     
  8. HouseHunny

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    My son is about to turn 8 months. While pregnant with him, I was also put on bed rest because I had a low lying placenta and then pre term labor at 32 weeks. So that dry spell was hard to handle because before that we were also still active sexually.

    One thing I did was let him watch porn and release whenever he felt the need. This made sure he would never get too frustrated from going without. I used to enjoy watching him pleasure himself. Then when he was ready to come I would have him cum somewhere on my body..boobs, ass, you get the idea. We were big on body massages too. There is nothing better than a nice body massage from your man when you are pregnant like that. We also got into finding erotica stories online and would read them to each other. It was a rough patch for us, but at the end, I was sooo big because my son was a very big baby. It was a good thing I was able to relax without having the pressures of having sex. I wouldn't have been able to hang. I remember one time before being put on bedrest I was riding him and oh my goodness I felt like a huge whale. My SO never once complained about my looks, he is more about my confidence and sexiness. Although I am sure there must have been times when in his head he must have been thinking...Dang this chick is huge...lol I love the glow of a pregnant woman. There is nothing more beautiful than that...as long as that pregnant woman is not me...lol
     
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    Personally i wouldn't want sex whilst pregnant as i'd worry about the baby too much but i doubt i could go without it for 9 months so i don't know maybe i would.
     
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    I kinda turns me on actually, hot idea
    Is doggie possible
     
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    My wife and enjoyed sex both times she was pregnant, and we had sex right up until she went into labour. One has to use appropriate positions, of course, but whatever is comfortable is okay.

    It didn't turn me on that she was pregnant per se, it was just an opportunity to share love during those nine-month periods. My wife was clearly hornier than normal, so I had a duty to do as well!

    A healthy penis size isn't a problem when having sex with a pregnant woman.
     
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    Doggie works best mid term - i also found my wife was wetter / thicker juices and very horny at that time, anyone found the same thing? (thats with their wifes / GFs that is!)

    I think some guys worry that they will be poking the babies eye out or something which can put them off but on the basis that the average dick is about 7inch (well mine is if i fold it in half!:) ) obviously its not likely, the baby is well protected and miles away.

    Also, i have read that if she reaches orgasm, her body releases happy endorphins into the blood stream which can create a feeling of well being for the unborn baby (not sure if their is any scientific evidence of this) but a possible plus point anyway.

    Richie
     
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    Well I am 6 months pregnant with my 2nd child and I love my body and at times, he is the one who initiates it. It makes me feel good about myself, and our relationship, and confident that I am not just a big fat walrus that is useless during this time.

    It is completely healthy as well. Great stimulation as well.

    I guess other than mutual masterbation and oral. we often do it doggie, or while I am on my side from behind (my new fav position it just feels diff. now)

    so enjoy this time with your sexual experiences....
     
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    Although I've never done the pregnant sex thing...Aksuper's actual question was about how to feel the closeness that making love provides now that she's on bedrest and cant.

    For my man and I one of the things we both love is just to lay in bed together and trace the curves of eachothers body. It stimulates so many nerves to just lay in the dark quiet and try to guess where they will go next. Not to mention the fun that it is to try to memorize eachothers body's, which would be interesting as yours is so rapidly changing
     
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    I was about to say the same...This chick is on bedrest..not allowed to be penetrated and depending on her exact condition not able to bring herself to orgasm, due to consequences of preterm labor or complications. So no doggy for her :(
     
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    I think it's a turn-on if a chick is pregnant and still wants sex. Definitely attractive to me.
     
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    I'd be worried about hurting the baby durng sex in the later stages. Don't know if that's an actual problem or not, though. But that'd be my main concern.
     
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    I too find pregnant women sexy! Even those that I normally wouldn't be attracted to just turn me on when preggers.

    I think sex during pregnancy can do alot of good for the self confidence of the female, and may even bring some couples closer together in more ways than one.
     
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    You have to be careful you could bring your girl into premature labor