Sex and condom question.

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  1. GregP

    GregP New Member

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    i'm a virgin and me and my girlfriend will most likely be having sex tomorrow... i always wondered what you did with the condom afterwards?? after sex do you get up and throw it in the trash, go to the bathroom, lay there and 'cuddle'? it seems like an awkward situation and I want to know what to do after. :(
     
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    I'd suggest taking a quick trip to the bathroom and flush it, as laying there with the condom in place (as you slowly lose your erection) may cause embarrassing leakage.

    Notice I said QUICK trip, as a woman really needs to be held and loved after sex. Aside from the orgasm, it's the best part, imho. ;)
     
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    thanks.. but what do you say? "be right back" or some sort?? she has a female room mate and don't want to run into her if i am out in the hall taking running to the bathroom... a
     
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    Dude, drop the condom on the floor and just hold that woman. You can throw the condom away whenever.

    BD
     
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    Yep, that's about how to do it. If you do run into the room mate, hold the condom out and quickly say, "Here." She'll reflexively take it and you turn and sprint back into the bedroom and lock the door.
     
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    OR...ask her if she wants to join you and your GF. :lol
     
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    Gee whiz, didn't think of that!
     
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    Thats pretty much what i do...or sometimes we actually have to leave right after and its not awkward ever for me to just stand up take the condom off put it in the trash (i like to make it not NOTICEABLE) but still and put clothes on and leave also.

    It doesnt matter just dont take it and hand it to her...lol
     
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    Do like they do around here and just throw it out the window:lol
     
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    I'd just go to the bathroom, throw it away and clean ya self up/pee only be a short while... and then go back and cuddle her... She may want to clean herself up you never know... If she's a virgin then she'll deffo want to...
     
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    Don't be like the first guy I was with, he took it off, went outside and left it in the street. Everybody saw him do it, lol... apparently it was his way of telling everyone that he did it.

    Just look around for a trashcan in the room before you get started so when you're done all you have to do is toss it in.
     
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    Trashcan is the best thing. Most people have one close to the bed, if not throw it with your clothes and pick it up later.
     
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    lol get that thing off, she will thank you hehe. no girl want a wet THING laying on their leg while you cuddle with her
     
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    Nobody has mentioned it, but if you're throwing it in the trash (or anywhere other than flushing it), tie a knot in it first so it doesn't leak.
     
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    :rofl:rofl:rofl
     
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    yea... thats a good idea, just tie it up and put it under some of the trash or put it in a sheet of toilet paper to be discreet.
     
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    Wrap it in a tissue and toss it into the trash next to the bed.
     
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    Well, OP, the time to have done this has passed. Did you do it? What DID you do with the condom?
     
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    I hope he took my advice.:lol