so im new to sex, and relationships in general, 3 years ago was my last relationship and sexual encounter, so im a bit of a novice in the subject matter. However, I started seeing this girl that I had spoken to over the internet for about 3 months, we made arrangements to see each other, she was going to stay with me for about 4 days, as she had some business where I live and we had spoken on the phone every night for quite some time, we trusted each other. Well she comes up here, and as kind of expected, that night we spent the night together, and again pretty much every night for the 4 day weekend. However, one of the night we had like... crazy intensive sex, doing all kinds of positions and what not, well I was wearing a condom (doing the responsible thing), and at one point I was doing doggy style with her, well I slipped out of her, and she grabs me to put me back inside, and suddenly I go back at it. after about 2 minutes of this I wanted to change position, so I pulled out and went to feel my dick, and there was no condom on it, it felt like it had lotion all over it. I look on the floor to see the condom laying there, and then I had like a mini panic attack. I didnt know if I was having sex with her bareback or not... So what I am wondering, is if we did it for about 2-3 minutes bareback, how worried should I be about her getting The "P" word? I wasn't really anywhere near orgasm, I never came in side of her.... How worried should I be? I had a friend tell me that there really is hardly any, if not any at all sperm in precum in early stages of sex, but closer to orgasm there is more of it. Is that true? She had taken a sex class in college so I have every reason to trust her, I guess I am just posting this for my own piece of mind, its the first time I have had sex in 3 years, and the 2nd girl I have ever had sex with, I dont want it to turn out as a bad experience, because I really care for this girl.