Serious question..... Please help

Discussion in 'General Sex Discussion' started by lowrd03vr6, Apr 12, 2007.

  1. lowrd03vr6

    lowrd03vr6 New Member

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    So I have been reading these forums for a while but have never posted anything, so here it goes.

    I have been hanging out with this new girl for a few weeks now and last night we had sex for the first time, well attempted to. It went like this: all during foreplay everything was going good, i had an erection and she was wet. Well once we actually went to have sex, I completely lost my erection. Now, I have been with several girls in my past and nothing like this has ever happened so I'm a little confused as to whats going on. I am only 21 years old so Viagra is definitely not needed.

    This girl and I have been talking pretty seriously about dating, so this problem needs to get resolved ASAP.

    Any help/advice would be appreciated....... Thanks
     
  2. Ryan

    Ryan Gold Member

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    Most problems like this are all mental, just relax. You were probably just nervous.
     
  3. tr0n

    tr0n New Member

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    If you drive a VR6, you're doing something right...why VW stopped making those motors I have no idea. I had a 94 and with some Schrick parts that thing was a real screamer.

    About your boner, don't worry about it- that happens sometimes. The more you dwell on it the more it'll keep happening. Just forget about it and focus on her for a while and it'll go away!
     
  4. MrsT1976

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    I agree with all the previous posts. The first night my hubby and I had sex, he couldn't get it inside me - again, never had this problem before - I was wet and we tried various angles but it just didn't happen. I wasn't worried, I knew I was anxious, also he was a new partner, I had been with my ex for seven years so I was nervous. We just cuddled for a while, had a little sleep, tried again, and BINGO, no problems.
    Try not to dwell on this as that may cause it to happen again. Hopefully she should understand too. Good Luck, but i'm sure you won't need it. :dgrin