[Ask a Guy] Sensitivity in penis

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  1. corvette88

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    ay guys, anybody here find a lack of sensitivity in their dick? I do and im only 23. When I cum its from watching my girlfriend do her thing with me, its more mental for me. However I would like to actually feel the pleasure on my dick especially when she gives me head, it depresses me cause it feels like im missing out :(
     
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    Have you ever had any potential damage to your nerves down there?

    Accidents?
    Penis pumps?
    Piercings?
     
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    Are you on any medications?
     
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    nope no accidents, A few broken bones here or there but nothing that I think would cause me to not have feeling :(
     
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    There are medications that have ill sexual affects, I'm on Zoloft and as a result, sensitivity is dulled down and causes me to last longer... not as fun as it sounds. There are other medications that are meant for one thing that can be used for other things, take a look at what you are taking or when and how you are taking it. Also do you masturbate a lot, find other stimuli to help you.
     
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    okay I will look into that, thanks, hey does anybody know of any cremes or anything that will highten sensitivity? I see hundreds advertised and ive tried a few but they really dont work. i dont wanna waste money on somethin that isnt any good.
     
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    Also, are you circumcised or uncircumcised, men who are circumcised actually do loose sensitivity due to the glans on the head of your penis drying out, try applying a small amount of petroleum jelly to those glans, also if you wear loose boxers, the constant rubbing caused by them will lower sensitivity, i suggest wearing boxer briefs.
     
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    Ehhhh, there's a lot that "claim" to do so, but I haven't found anything that ACTUALLY does and I sell/test sex toys. So yeah.

    If it's a nerve issue, no amount of cream or gel is going to help you. If it's just a general thing where you feel like you could be feeling more, try starting with a lube that adds feeling. One that tingles or 'warms'.

    Beware that the tingling or warming lubes CAN have a bad reaction with your girl if she's sensitive though. I learned it the hard way with the warming. It was more like the fires of hell. If you catch my drift.
     
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    OOOOOOO, I would feel terrible if that happen to my wife.
     
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    Lol, it sucked something hardcore. But we've learned our lesson. :p
     
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    Saddly enough I've been where you were lol, stupid dare in basic training... it involved me, my penis and a handful of icy hot... never again lol
     
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    According to his other post he is circumcised.
     
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    *hijack* bmapes, this happened to me and my ex husband once...he grabbed the icy hot instead of the KY jelly once...OMFG, I didn't think I was ever going to be alright again. :eek:ugh:lol:eyes
     
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    This might sound crazy but when I first had sex 25 years ago it took me a long time to cum with a girl because I was used to masturbating so much before I ever had sex. Don't masturbate at all that should help also make sure she is good and ready the more wet, swelled, and hot her vagina is the better it feels. Nothing worse then a dry vagina for both party's.
     
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    That sucks for you ladies. Those Fire & Ice condoms are somethin else boy. Dam I love those.