So, you know how when you have an orgasm, you get a really sensitive feeling and it almost hurts to keep going? Well, I was just wondering why for some people, they seem to get that way right when the orgasm starts, and for others, it doesn't happen until the orgasm is over. For me, it happens pretty much the second I start to orgasm, and I can't handle any more motion or stimulation at that time. I know that with my previous girlfriends though, they didn't get that way until after their orgasms were completely over. I wonder if there's a gender correlation? I know that I've heard of women who get sensitive when their orgasm starts though, and men who don't get that way until afterwards. If you are a guy like that, when exactly does the "no touching!" feeling start...is it right after the ejaculation is completely finished?