[Ask a Girl] Sensitive Above the Waist

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    I once heard of a guy who could give his woman an O by kissing her at the base of her neck - lucky guy. Have any gals here experienced an O or even a peak by being kissed or caressed above the waist?
     
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    an orgasm? no. but it makes me moan/gasp/whimper a little
     
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    I love being kissed on the back of my neck especially when in doggy. Gives me chills I love it. Definitely would bring me very close to orgasm while being penetrated but that alone probably not.
     
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    What about breasts and nipples? Do women enjoy having them kissed and fondled as much as guys enjoy doing it?
     
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    most of them time, no. i get in moods where my boobs get sensitive though and thats when i enjoy them being played with most.

    cute kitty!
     
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    Umm really? Hell yeah!!! having them caressed sends my body on a roller coaster of pleasure.
     
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    That's interesting to know. Most women I know love it.
     
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    they've been majorly desensitized
     
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    How? Why? I think this may be what I'm up against.
     
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    it's a long story. my ex was constantly touching and grabbing them when i didnt want him to. he was constantly making ME touch them, pinch my nipples, even slap them. it actually became painful after a while and not to mention frustrating.
     
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    I haven't abused my wife's boobs, but haven't been as gentle and considerate as I might have been. She's now indifferent to having them touched in any way. Is that sensitivity gone forever? Any suggestions how to get it back?
     
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    id suggest not touching them for a whiiiile. i don't think her sensitivity is gone forever by any means; like i said, i still get in moods where i want to have them touched and it's arousing to me but its not very often. you'll just have to wait until she wants/asks you to touch them
     
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    You've given me some good insight - thanks :)
     
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    Mine are desensitized. It just doesn't feel good for me. A local radio presenter also said hers were "numb".
    I've read of a woman having an orgasm from caressing her boobs, and another .02% can orgasm just by thinking about it!
     
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    i perhaps am not remembering the percentage correct, but the brain is the most powerful sexual organ!
     
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    This is BAD news for a guy like me who loves touching those beauties a lot.

    I am actually looking online for a woman who orgasms from breast stimulation, my long time fantasy, but also hoping we will be a nice match together for the long run too. The fact that touching them so much will desensitize them is new to me and "disturbing", wondering if there are women who don't suffer from this desensitisation.

    NO, I don't mean I will be after her breasts constantly LOL, just maybe the novelty will wear out and I will be "normal" after a while.
     
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    i don't know if this is what you're talking about, but when my gf and i play around before sex... and i play in the right way, she can get riled up to the point where she can reach orgasm in about 30 seconds.
     
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    I find that disturbing as well! I want mine touched all the time LOL

    I know that mine can get tender if they are too roughly played with hard twisting doesn't go down well with my nipples.
     
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    If you're anything like my ex then I don't think it's going to just wear off.

    In my case, it wasn't only the fact that my boobs were being touched too much, but it had a lot to do with who was touching them. Does that make sense? To paint the picture, there was a point where even the act of sex was unenjoyable and like a chore.

    When something is expected from you it takes out any pleasure and that's what happened to me. Make sure your woman likes it as much as you do or at least you aren't taking advantage of her