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  1. XxCheVellexX

    XxCheVellexX New Member

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    hi everyone.:eyes
    I recently got out of a 3 year relationship.:ugh I'm having a very hard time moving on, but my ex is getting along just swell. Lately i have been feeling the side affects of not having a girlfriend to take care of sexual needs. So i have started to think about wut it would be like to hook up with another girl. (shes the only girl i've ever done stuff with.), and i've noticed im very shy and conscious about my body. well, my size down there in particular. I'm probably just below or somewhat close to average, but it just dont seem like enough. I've been looking at penis enlarging pills and such online. So my question to you guys is, do you think something of that sort is worth it?
     
  2. cook74

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    Hell no mate! Close to average is good enough for most girls. Be happy with what you have got, and most of all find that confidence that can shine over your fears, and be noticeable to those ladies. :brow

    Really you have nothing to be ashamed about in the cock department. It's your confidence that you really need to enlarge. Get over that shyness.

    Hope that helped, I'm sure you will find many better pearls of wisdom from some of the lovely ladies and gents on this site.

    Hang in there man, and don't let it get you down. ;)
     
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    I'm sure you're fine, hon. Don't go putting drugs into your body for no reason. Most of those pills wouldn't help you anyway. As cook said, if you get over your self consciousness, that'll help you more than a huge dick. But, sexual needs can be satisfied by yourself too, so don't hook up with the first chick that comes along because you're really horny. Do what feels right to you. If that means, you have to masturbate for awhile, so be it.
     
  4. Joe

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    One minor correction to Dreama's post: NONE of those pills will help. Got it? NONE! Scam! If ever there is such a pill, you'll hear about it on the Evening News an read about it on the front page of your local newspaper.

    If you want to please a woman in bed, learn to be the best oral lover in the world. There are a few threads on this forum with good techniques. Read them. Buy a book or two on the subject. Buy a video. (Sinclair Institute has a good "Better Sex Series".)

    Big dicks are mostly a macho guy thing. Some women prefer larger ones and some don't, but they all prefer a great lover, and a big dick never made anyone a great lover.
     
  5. Puss_in_boots

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    Unless your next girlfriend is a "size-queen" or an ex-porn star, she'll probably be more than happy with what you've already got. The *ONLY WAY* to enlarge your penis is through painful surgery, which will probably end up with you having very soft erections, anyway. In any case, it's probably best to learn to work with what you have.
     
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    Yeah, that's basically what I meant, but it did need to be reiterated and emphasized. :)
     
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    Don't know how old you are, but really, huge cocks are the stuff porn is made of.... real life is different. Spend time adoring your partner - finding the sensual and erotic mix that brings far more pleasure to a woman than a physical package. As Joe suggested, find some reading or video material that enlightens you on the true way to 'make love' to a woman.

    Oral sex techniques should be explored in depth, as it focuses on the clit, and most female orgasms are clitoral orgasms.
     
  8. Maveri9720

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    I agree with everyone else above. Women are more interested in your personality and how you make them feel, as opposed to how big you are downstairs. You could have a HUGE dong, but if you are a dick (pun intended) to them, then it doesn't matter. Plus, your penis is only a small part of the experience. If you are that worried about it, make it up in other ways.