secret fantasy

Discussion in 'Sexual Fetishes and Fantasies' started by eighthalf, Aug 5, 2007.

  1. eighthalf

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    My wife has always been timid when it comes to the topic of sex.

    One day while we were relaxing after a long day, she turns to me and asks "I can tell you anything and it won't offend you right"?

    I told her that anything she tells me would not offend me at all.

    She looks at me and says "What if I told you I have had many fantasies that I have never told you". Looking at her I thought to myself what else is new. I asked her to tell me some.

    "I have had fantasies about other women and other stuff like that" she responds. "Does that offend you?" she asks.
    Turned on by her admitting to this, I simply told her not at all and asked what else.

    She begins to tell me the fantasies she has had couped up since we have been together each one of them more erotic than the other.

    Like someone who felt liberated by confessing to a crime, she begins to tell me some.

    "Sometimes when I am giving you head, I am thinking that I am going down on another man". Thinking about what she tells me make my cock rise through my pants. "That doesn't make you mad does it?" she asks like asking for permission.

    I tell her that this makes me happy to be telling me this and also horny.
     
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    Your wife just opened the door to a great sex life for you two. Don't let it close. Keep talking.:brow
     
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    sounds like you two are gonna have some fun, haha.
     
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    All I can say is...

    Lucky BASTARD!

    My girl doesnt think of sex at ALL...
    she is the most unsexual person ive ever known lol ( why lord why!?!?)
    So,.. to say im a little jealous is an understatment.

    Enjoy it fella!
     
  5. cook74

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    Where did you find this wonderful woman?
    And..
    Does she have a twin sister?:drool

    Seriously though, have you fulfilled any of her fantasies yet?
     
  6. eighthalf

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    Well one of my good friends was a stripper at a nice club and she wants my wife badly.
    She told me the things she would want to do to her. Now the question is, is my wife serious.
     
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    Their is only one way to find out.
    ASK

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    It would be disappointing to think that she might have told you her fantasies in the heat of the moment and then have second thoughts later. :(

    I would ask cautiously, seriously contemplating the wording of the questions. :nerv

    But if you notice she is still game, please, please fill us in on the details of the tryst.:drool

    Best of luck:tup
     
  9. eighthalf

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    Well I did talk to her and she is game.
    Seems this has hot her really hot.
    She wont be abke to meet up with our friend until she gets back from Omaha on a business trip for the week.

    I have teased her that I am going to pack her a special present in her suit case (dildo) and she joked back saying maybe she wont need the fake one.

    Any horny girls/guys in Omaha? LOL
     
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    I congratulate you for being the kind of man she can confide in, and also for your response. I am envious as heck. The one time I opened up to my husband about having a MFM fantasy, he got upset, really disgusted. Wish he was more like you. (sigh)
     
  11. eighthalf

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    As long as she is honest I am game!
    If she was a liar and a cheat then goodbye.

    She is very exitied to be going out of town and and I do hope she opens up to people while out in Omaha NE at some Homewood Suites next week.
    She looks like Kelly Kline, so might get the guys after her or the girls.

    She just needs to stop being so shy is her first problem. Has trouble talking to people.
     
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    I can respect that. This whole journey with my husband hasn't been the easiest. It hasn't been without pain, and disappointment, and life altering changes. But, I have always been honest. In the end..... I can account for that!
     
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    I have always has fantasies of being dominated by 1 or 2 women.Women whom I don't know.Sometimes even being kidnapped by them and made to do sexual thing to them.At one point I was kinda hoping that one of them would come true.
     
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    LOL hey I was just on the phone with our firend and she was just talking about kidnapping the wife and I and suducing her and making me watch as they play. Then she said if I was nice I could have them both. LOL
     
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    kudos to her being so open, i'm sure you both are going to have fun.
     
  16. eighthalf

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    She has been out of town all week and must be really horny.
    She said on the phone she really wants to fuck right now.
    I bet if someone were to talk her now she would not be so shy anymore.
     
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    Sounds nice eighthalf, give her some phone sex while she is away. If she looks like Kelly Kline that's hot :drool
     
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    Congrats on having someone whose not afraid of sex :D
    Good luck on your imminent travels to heaven and back ;)


    I don't know if its just me, maybe it is judging by the replies in this post...but if my wife in the future told me she imagined she was going down on someone else when she gave me head, it would turn me off and piss me off even more...
     
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    It's not just you Maddox. I'm not begrudging folks their own sexual fantasies/lifestyles/techniques etc....

    But for my wife and I personally, we hold our marriage sacred and intimate... and we love the fact that we are the one ones that share each other's bodies. We get our freak on as many new ways as we can discover with each other....but with each other alone. We leave fantasy at fantasy and don't invite others in.
     
  20. Bluesy

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    I would feel the exact same way if I were in a relationship. It doesn't mean you aren't "open", "adventurous", or a "sexual person" if you don't want to have sex with multiple people :ugh To each his or her own, and some of us just aren't programmed to enjoy sex unless we share some type of emotional bond with a lover. It doesn't lessen the quality of a person's sex life to be monogamous, we just all have different needs and derive the same satisfaction in different ways.