I've met a girl a little bit ago, and as of recently we've been hanging out a lot. We've had a lot of fun together, and a lot of the time it's seemed destined that we'll eventually get together. But sometimes I'm not sure. To clarify a little more, she's very open with me. She's honest, cares about what I think, talks to me about problems, etc. We've talked about everything together, and very open. Anything from periods to sex to past relationships to changing oil in vehicles, etc. So from a relationship standpoint, she seems like a good candidate. Now I'm not looking for a piece of ass... but quite frankly if I got with her I know our sex life would be interesting. She's teased me a bit online and talked openly about what her favorite things are in the bedroom. So we've established two things. A: She'd definitely bring a lot to the table when it comes to being a faithful, honest significant other. B: She'd definitely bring a lot to the bedroom too. Yet for some reason at times I second guess things. Maybe I'm trying to find the little things to blame my second guessing on. Perhaps the fact that sometimes when she's getting into explaining something she doesn't realize she's talking louder than normal, maybe it's her new york accent, but I'm not sure. Yet if I turn around and look at my previous relationship, she was the SAME way. She'd get so wrapped up in talking about something I'd have to remind her that she's nearly shouting. So I guess in essence, this new girl is similar to my ex as far as her exclamatory style. But that's not a bad thing... Maybe I'm still too used to my ex. My ex gf had the ability to look like a 14 year old girl in pigtails, or a 32 year old college professor. I haven't really seen that in the new girl. But then again, all we've done is gone to movies on cold nights where we've both dressed up like bums, lol. I'm thinking what we need is a nice dinner together. Get real dressed up together, go out, talk, etc. Maybe all I need is to see that she has a girlie side, then I'd be more confident? Hmm I don't know. Just looking for any input really.