Screams turns me off. What about u

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  1. jt _couple2012

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    Do you guys like screaming, noise while having sex? Is there somebody like me that likes to work in peace and quite? lol
     
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    It does turn me off and it always seems fake. Most women I know orgasm relatively quietly, although not totally quietly.
     
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    Good to know I am not the only one. Thanks cbrmale
     
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    I love the little whimpers, moans, and soft exclamations of pleasure that my girlfriend makes when she's cumming. She's very vocal, but it's all quiet and intimate - not something the whole neighborhood can hear. ;)

    Full on screaming or other extreme vocalizations to me just sound like, "OH GOD! I AM FAKING THIS ORGASM SO HARD RIGHT NOW!" Vocalization during sex (especially around climaxes) is fine, but it needs to be genuine and not over-the-top. Grunts, groans, moans, a few words here or there - fine; very sexy. Screams, shouts, and other such "big" vocalizations - not for me, thanks.
     
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    Now there's three, so I am really glad it's not just me and one other.
     
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    The louder she gets the better
     
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    I hate the 'fake' type screams (have I ever heard them?) but every other vocalisation I find a big turn on, almost an essential. To hear the grunts, pants, whimpers, gasps, uttered words of pleasure and urging, the hissing intake of breath between clenched teeth; oh my God yes.
    Her final orgasmic out-rushing of breath, her drawn out sighs and fighting for her breath and senses, add fuel to my enjoyment and pleasure.
    Please protect me from silent women.
     
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    Banging my head saying to myself "Do you have to post on every thread and give your smartass opinion???":eek:

    If anything (including dirty talk) sounds even slightly fake or gives me that impression, I'm turned off and no way to turn me on again for sometime.. Otherwise, I like the vocals:D
     
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    Silence messes me up. If she is completely quite I think I am doing something wrong and feel awkward. Then again I have had some very loud woman that were incredible in bed and a couple that were so fake it killed it for me
     
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    Not if it's real. I can scream or be loud when having a real good orgasm.
     
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    I am a genuine screamer. I can't be quiet during sex, I've tried. I have had to try to tone it down because I have a child now. I don't like when it's completely quiet. Makes me think I'm doing something wrong.
     
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    I'm with you AG... "Genuine Screamer"!

    I definitely can NOT be quiet while orgasming! The Screaming helps me to fully release it and let it completely out. It's a more "satisfying" Orgasm because of it. Husband loves to hear me scream...there's no Guess work..."Did she?"

    And I'm sure the neighbors have heard me during Day time Sex ;)

    (It sucks when we go to a Hotel/Motel because I have to put my face into a pillow for sound reduction :rolleyes: )
     
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    My wife & I one evening while having a meal were over come by lust and we just had to have a quickie and went to the restroom. We knew this was a mistake because they used her orgasming decibels to calibrate sirens. As she came her solution was to clamp her mouth tight against mine and scream into me, I thought she had burst my eardrums, it was like a mega nose-blow.
     
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    LOL! Very ingenious of her. ;) I hope your eardrums are still intact :)
     
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    They've healed; now when I elicit the same response from anybody in a similar ' noise restricted' situation I quickly avert my head :D
     
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    I'm a sensualist so vocals are welcomed ;)
     
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    "Genuine Screamers" I like -- I love....
     
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    Love her solution.. Must be hot, leaving out damaged eardrums:p