Running into an old sexual partner

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  1. EyeKandy

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    I use to have a tiny apartment after college, in a building next to a guy I was sexually active with all the time. We'd fuck like 2-3 times a week. It was only ever a fuck-buddy relationship, but it was so easy. And so much fun.

    I'd get all dressed up, try on different outfits, we'd drink, and hang, and fuck like crazy. When we were done, either he'd go home or I would. He was a photographer, so I also helped him build his portfolio. We'd often set up a tri-pod and record, or photograph, ourselves fucking too. I have, easily, a 1tb external with photos from (and of) him.

    Anyway, last week I bumped into him on the street. He was with his wife and two kids. It threw me off big time. I instantly thought about all those pics. He was friendly. Introduced me as an old neighbor. He's a very average looking guy, and his wife and family were beautiful.

    Our stuff was hawt tho
     

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    you look amazing in those shots.
     
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    Just a thought, but he might not want photos with his face posted somewhere that he's unaware of....o_O
     
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  4. EyeKandy

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    It's all good. Those are really old.
     
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    ...I didn't even notice that there was a guy there. LOL but Xtacy is right.
     
  6. EyeKandy

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    He sold those, and much more, to a porn site ages ago. Trust me. It's no big deal. I can *not* post pics if you like?!?
     
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    Something kinda similar happened to me 3 years back. Me and my buddy was out four wheeling a few towns up from mine. Stopped to get gas and ran into a girl i used to have a FWB relationship with. I didn't recognize her until she spoke to me. She was with her husband and daughter. We talked for a few minutes and then went our separate ways once again. We used to record everything. She pretty much helped me discover and live out my fantasies as I did for her as well. About 2 weeks later I got a package in the mail. It had our photo album and all of our videos in it. She had put a note in the photo album telling me that she thought I'dlike to see these and Iif I didn'twant then to send them back . Talk about a blast from the past.

    Thank you for posting this thread . Took me back down memory lane.
     
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    I'm surprised this doesn't happen more often! My first real love,well it didn't work out because he was already married but I bumped into him about 6 months ago for the first time in 7 years. We are still friends and usually send an email or two a year to each other but this was the first time we had seen each other in a long time. The connection as still there but he is getting married for a second time! But it was nice to meet him and it was very lovely that we are both so much happier than back in those days.

    Also a few months ago a couple sat next to me on the train and it was a guy I dated after my engagement broke off. I thought he was crazy and we only went out a few times but he was very into me and pestered me afterwards and I had to be quite rude to him for the message to get through to him. Anyway, they had a small baby. I kept my head down and said nothing but he must have seen it was me! Luckily it was only a few stops before they got off!
     
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    You look fantastic in those pictures! What I wouldn't give to be him!
     
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    Very hot!
     
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    I've run into a few former "fuck buddies". Very glad I picked the right one. LOL. They didn't look like that when I was doing them.
     
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    Great pics. It looks like you will have some good nsa memories.
     
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    I was dating a guy, snoopy, for about 6 weeks. 3 months later I literally walked into him at a deli by lunch. It was kind of awkward. We started talking again. Today we are friends. That was 2 years ago
     
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    I Love it!! I had a similar situation. sadly I'd like to run into her! Great memories fuck buddies are Hot! This girl and I worked together and had similar schedules. I'd be just waking up and she'd call. She'd ask " are you still in bed? " I'd say "Yes". she'd say" stay there!!" I'd say "just waiting for you"!!!. Of course I would jump and shower , brush my teeth and all ready. I still fantasize about her. Great Girl!!
     
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    I'm Facebook friends with one of my old f*** buddies. at the time our relationship was what I like to call sexually platonic. she was a lesbian, very much on the butch side of the spectrum, but every once in awhile she had the urge for some dick and I just happen to be that dick for a few times. in another thread I referred to our encounters as quite possibly the gayest sex I've ever had. I only say that because she was probably the first girl I'd come across who my sexual attraction didn't really develop from any type of visual attraction. in essence we were just really good Bros, but she happened have female parts so we could kind of Bro out together.we had some marathon sex sessions, which I can contribute more to alcohol because she was almost uncomfortably tight, then we'd smoke and play video games afterwards. she found me on Facebook about 3 or 4 years ago, and it really wasn't weird at all again I think because we were such good friends before, and we are currently in long term relationships of our own. she had a wife who has a kid, and it was awesome to be able to compare the almost simultaneous domestication that took place with either of us. the coolest thing though, is that she is now transitioning into he. unbeknownst to many of her close friends she had been struggling with her gender identity for years. she was initially reluctant, or rather he was initially reluctant to announce it to me because of our previous couplings. I told him I thought it was the coolest thing in the world that he was finally going to be able to live his life.one day we may talk about our sexual relationship and the psychology behind it, but until then all it means is I lost a female friend and I gained a male one.
     
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    I ran into a former fuck buddy from college. She recognized me at a store we were at shopping. We had not seen each other for over 25 years. She didn't look anything like she did back in college. She was married twice with four kids. We ended up in the parking lot at the same time and she came over and said it was great to see me again - gave me a hug and said ... "You were the best kisser I have ever had" I didn't know what to say and just wished her the best and left.
     
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    I see an ex quite often as we are now related. lol
     
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    I would like to run into most all of them more as I'd like to know they are have nice lives. I've never walked away from a lover in any type of negative way. I'd like to think they felt that way too.

    There is only one I'd like to fuck one more time. Best sex ever, yet sadly we just couldn't get along outside of the bedroom, living room, bathroom, laundry room, garage, car, storage shed, tent, back row of the movie theater, water tower scaffold, bed of the truck….er…you get the point. :D
     
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    @DayPlay3, I think we have found each other; twin separated at birth ;)
     
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    We separated because Mom liked you better. :p
     
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