Rough sex

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  1. GenericHbomb

    GenericHbomb New Member

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    I am currently seeing a girl and at this moment in time we have not had sex yet. Through our intimate discussions I have learned what she likes. I have only been with a few women before all in longer relationships and they all liked slow, passionate sex. My current girlfriend likes rowdy, rough, hard, kinky(like being taken advantage of) sex and is always horny with sex on her mind 24/7.

    Well here lies my problem. I have never been with a girl who likes that type of sex so I am not sure exactly what to do. I know every girl is different but there are many general things that almost every girl who likes ths type of sex will like and also I will be able to figure out which ones she would and would not like but basically I am looking for ideas and suggestions.
    How do you take advantage of a girl? What some ideas on this?
    I am not sure I completely understand the idea of taking advantage of her, could someone elaborate?

    What are some ideas for having, things to do while having etc. in order to have rough hot sex?
    I will find out what she does and doesn't like as me and her progress but for now I just am not sure what to do to make sex rougher and harder.

    I tried to make things as clear as I could and will explain more if needed. Any help would be greatly appreciated.
    Thank you,
    Matt
     
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    You know, rough sex is basically passionate sex but you are a little more vicious.
    I suggest you be dominant, and if you are switching positions you can't take your time you have to flip her, move her, push her, and you know just be rough with the sex.
    Thats really all I can point out.
     
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    If this girl likes the rough sex then she is going to want you to think totally different than you have ever thought. First, you have probably had sex while hugging your partner and staying close to her. Can't do that now. You are going to have to get her in possition you have never been in before. Try to let your mind run wild. Don't think passion while having sex, think of peasuring her. Don't make love to her. Fuck her.
     
  4. Puss_in_boots

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    Hold her arms down, grab her hair and pull it, spank her, move her roughly into different positions, and for god's sake POUND that pussy as hard as you can.

    You might think you're hurting her but she'll let you know when/if you've gone too far.
     
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    If your only idea is to satisfy her, Then by all means pull her hair, And Spank Her.
    But
    If She is someone that you wish to spend the rest
    of your life with, Then do it your way, And if she
    doesn't like it that way then you are not sexually compatible.


    Hiker
     
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    I would recommend deciding on a safe word prior to having sex. This is a word she can use at any time during rough play to signal you stop. And when she's says it, you damn well better stop.

    Everybody's idea of rough sex varies. What I consider rough is probably pretty vanilla for some. Just ask her how she likes it. Puss In Boots pretty much covered the basics:)

    Hiker has a good point, but I'd say you might as well give it a whirl. You might find that you like rough sex, too!
     
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    Is trying to tie her to the bed considered rough sex?
     
  8. Dreama

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    What Puss said! Plus a safeword. Can't go wrong with that.
     
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    My recipe:

    1. Make a safeword.

    2. Think back... way back. To when you were around 3 or younger. Go look at a pissed off 3 year old... right now. Now imagine that kid grows up all on his own, and no one ever cages him. Now think of how he would fuck. That's what you're gonna do. That's it.
     
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    In a joking matter (of sorts)

    Watch a few pornos that you might consider rough....and study from them...sounds lame but it just might help....
     
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    I agree with this. Depending on what her idea of "rough" is I would just start out being confident and passionate and see where that takes you. She might be fine with just being pounded harder and faster and you making quick decisions on when to change positions and just being in charge in a confident way. Maybe some light dirty talk too but things don't have to get too crazy unless more turns her on. Sometimes it's the little things that matter like grasping her wrists above her head while you are on on top or speading her ass cheeks from behind. It's a hot feeling for some women to be taken hard like that.

    Get ready for some fun GH :)
     
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    God i wish my girl liked it rough.

    A safeword? Guess better to be safe than sorry, but remember, rough sex is not sado.
    try treating her like a slut during the sex, best i can say haveing not had the actual experience myself yet.
     
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    Man, this thread is getting me WET! :dgrin
     
  14. Kronnie

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    Rip her clothes off, pic her up push her onto the bed, put her arms up above her head and hold them so she can not move them.use your legs and feet to slide her legs apart, then suck and nibble and bite her breasts and nipples roughly..whilst nipping her body in various places ( obviouslt where your mouth can reach whilst she is unable to move her arms .

    Then let go of her but "TELL" her not to damm well move.
    and head further down her body roughly kissing her as you lower yourself , give her pussy a rough licking up and down and around.your hands gripping her hips and then give her clit a throughly good nibbling. whilst sucking in her lips one at a time and gently bibble on each...before sliding your tongue into her pussy, and lapping at her walls then curl your tongue up and grate against her g-spot.....im sure byy this time she will be nicly aroused and wet.....anything after this im sure you know what to do as yours and her minds will be very aroused.

    Enjoy and have fun.
     
  15. Barbwire

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    Holy shit K, will you marry me?!?!
     
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    Wow. I think i could use some of that!!
     
  17. Bluesy

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    Kronnie needs to write a book for men on how to be an insanely fabulous lover. I want an autographed first edition for my bookshelves, and a few dozen to pass out to every guy I know.
     
  18. Puss_in_boots

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    Jeez, Kronnie. That post got me really hot. Wow...
     
  19. Kronnie

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    Lol :eek: I do enjoy giving as much pleasure as i am able to, i am mostly a submissive guy sexualy, but at times i do very much enjoy being in control rofl.
    Well i have never been maried so hmmmm perhaps :p

    CL, emerly, bluesy and Puss.....:bow thankyou very much for the compliments ladies, always great to have the ego rubbed hehehe

    If i could write a book bluesy i would defenetly give you the first copy signed to, and hand it to you personaly, and as i am a single guy , i would be more than willing to share my abilities wit hall of you lovly ladies :)