What are people's views on rough sex? Even with my early partners I really enjoyed physical stuff like being picked up and thrown on to the bed. After a while I kind of realised that instead of just being a prelude to sex it was one of the things I enjoyed the most, and it was something I wanted to prolong. So when i was with a guy I trusted, say he threw me onto the bed I'd wriggle away from him and maybe let him chase me and grab me again and keep doing it till he'd pin me down. Even though I'm fairly small, I am strong for a femme so it does take a bit of effort to get a grip of me. I also have quite a high threshold for pain and discomfort. Over the years I'd go further and further. Actually one of the side effects for enjoying sex like this is that I became very choosey about my partner. There's only certain type of guys that you can trust to do stuff like this. They have to be mature enough to realise that just because I punch them doesn't mean they can punch me aftewards, they need to be aware of their own strength even when their heart is pumping. It's actually something thats far harder on the bloke than the women.Plus its not something you could ever do on a one night stand, so I've found relationships tend to be much longer term. Anyway these are just some of the things I do. To be honest I only do it seriously maybe twice a month cause it's all I'm able for. I know there are different methods and that it's not for everybody. But I'd be interested in hearing about other people's experiences.