romantic evening - need help in every area

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  1. starberry

    starberry New Member

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    Hi,

    My poor sweetheart his mother just had a thyroidectomy so he is coming over this weekend and I want to make him relax and forget all about his troubles for the night.

    I have a big screen and cable so I want to have a tv night but really romantic.

    How can I decorate to make it really sensual??

    Ok and I want to make him a nice dinner. I would say I am a begginer cook. He is kind of picky. No seafood, mushrooms, olives. Also, he hates chocolate flavoured things but not actual chocolate.

    Any suggestions for dinner?

    Mali
     
  2. heelfetish

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    Lightly scented candles always warm my heart. Just be sure not to set any fires when the action starts! :lol To me, just having the place neat, tidy & clean with a few candles burning and something cooking in the kitchen would make me melt.

    As for supper, you know his tastes better than us. Something simple like a roasted ham & scalloped potatoes works well and smells divine. Or perhaps Cook will have some meal suggestions. For a romantic dinner I prefer oven-cooked meals like roasts (pork, beef, etc). I find the scent intoxicating. Otherwise I prefer BBQ, especially in the spring/summer.

    Of course, it's always nice to dress up a little under your clothing so he can unwrap another sexy surprise when mealtime is over. :)
     
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    Romantic night!

    Here what I suggest:

    Soft lights, perhaps a few candles.

    Happy but soft, romantic music.

    A delicious, but light dinner, so he won't feel too stuffed for good sex!

    Offer a full body massage before making love.

    Give him space to choose any position and any type of sex! Most guys really go for this! I do anyway.

    Have above average "after sex" snacks available; a top quality ice cream brand, toasted almonds, blue cheese on wheat thins, whatever he's into.

    Run around the house naked a little bit! Most guys love this!

    If he's a boozer, get some Johny Walker black label, or something similar in quality.

    Close with a back scratch to help him fall asleep!
     
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    Light salad, and maybe some type of pasta or steak. Then for desert, maybe chocolate mousse, but don't eat it right away, you're going to want some of that later ;)

    For decorating your apartment, turn the lights down and use candlelight. I love candles. Put a light red cloth over one light and leave that on, that will set the perfect mood. Forget the cable, it should be a movie night. Something romantic, but not too girly: Something about Mary, Ghost...

    Messages during the movie is a good idea, then you can break out the chocolate mousse. :D
     
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    Probably too late for advice now but...I'd say be subtle but suggestive with dinner. I recently read a book that described a woman eating lunch in an engagingly sensuous way with the whole room captivated watching. Nothing overtly trampy like deep-throating hot dogs or popsicles, it was more about her getting wholly swept away in sensual gratification.
     
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    Not too late!! I'm Australian and its still several hours.
    Great tip I know he'll love that. He likes it when I lick the bubbles off the top of a beer just after opening it lol. I think I can eat sensually like that.
     
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    Starberry,
    You've got some good romantic suggestions already, so this is beyond romance and into sex. For me the best sex is when my woman takes charge and I get a chance to lay back, relax, and be pleasured. Often we men take the lead and do the harder work at sex, but having someone make love to us is a suprisingly common male fantasy.
     
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    OK,just letting you know how it went. It was perfect. Watched some movie I ordered off cable with lots of token boobies in it.
    I made dinner, which was chicken. And we had ice cream for dessert and that was REALLY fun.
    I mad e alittle bed of floor cushions and blankets on the floor in the lounge room, and I had red clothes over lamps and candles. One of the best nights ever. Thanks alot guys.
     
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    Glad it worked out well, you can also wear some nice lingerie nex time. I agree with CBRmale that sometimes to relax we just want the woman to take over.