I have been looking into getting one of those remote contolled butterfly vibrators (or any vibrator/tickler that could be worn on a date LOL ).. We want to have a little fun with me wearing it,say, to dinner, and hubby has the remote in his pocket, with full control on when I start to slither in my seat. :lol Anyway, I have been getting mixed reviews on the things. People say they are bulky, and uncomfortable. Some said they had to go in the ladies room and remove it, because it would move around or hurt their thighs. Most people said it was okay for bedroom, or around the house, but not what is is cracked up to be for outdoor fun. Anybody have experiences in this, and perhaps ones to avoid or ones to look for?