Let me just start off That there is no mother/son bond at all , that token was won over by my grandma. My mom was jealous of that, so she dump me on to my grandma when I was 8 . Aways when I was 13 my mom wanted me to move up to Palmdale with her (I was forced to). That's when I started having my issues . That's when my grades starting slipping A's and B's(a C here and there) to C's and D"s, once I got into high school All F's. When she past away in 05 I just Isolated my self from 17 to 21-1/2. I am not worrying about school right now as I registered at the Community College in WA for a 2 Year Associate's Combo Degree.(Full-Time)So no matter what I am going to WA. The fact comes down to whether or not I'll visit. Just before I turned 22 I decided to start dealing with my issues. few months ago I asked her why she dump me onto my grandma and wanted me back. But all I got was excuses such as "Not right we'll talk about it later. " 3 months ago I also told her that I was going to move to my brothers place in WA . right now my mom is trying to put some kind of guilt trip on me, but I am not falling for it. How can I get her to talk about it? It does not make it any better that they owe me some money also. I am not really worry about that since they are paying me back slowly.