I'm told I am to blame for all the relationship problems my girlfriend & I have. She upset most of the time and never ever affectionate. Reason being is because of my past. I had a "serious relationship" as she called it for 2 years before I met my current girlfriend. But my current girlfriend also had a serious boyfriend of 2 years too.. so I really don't know why my past bothers her so much. I didn't do anything crazy or bad when I was with my ex. It was just a normal first relationship. However my girlfriend goes crazy over the thought of my past. She thinks I was some kind of really bad guy that did stupid things. When really I did not. I honestly can say I'm a really nice guy. I'm getting really tired of my girlfriend getting affected by her stupid mind and always bringing up my past. Its been almost 2 years since I been with this girlfriend and she still manages to complain about stuff that happened 4 years ago, a time when I didn't even know her. Lately she's been breaking up with me all the time, being really cold and mean. She doesn't appreciate anything I do.I spend a whole weekend with her and treat her good and she just doesn't see that. She breaks up with me and the first thing she does will take me off her facebook and remove our photo album. She won't delete it just put it on private. Then the next day well be dating again. I know she loves me because she tells me that she's this way because she loves me. I just wished she could show it in a nice healthy way. I don't know why my past bothers her so much. I always remind her that, I'm happier now than I was then. I want to fix this with her because I know she's a really nice person because I've seen it. I'm fed up with her attitude lately though. Sometimes I wanna just break up with her but I don't know what id do without her. Specially since she says, if we break up, she won't even miss me or cry over me. Can somebody please help.